Etiquette question for DH. Warning, might seem silly.

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: Who should he room with.
    Stick with John since he said yes already. : (59 votes)
    95 %
    Flake on John and stick with previous roomie, Phillip. : (3 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 3
    3806 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    it’s one week out of 52. just stay with john since you already agreed to it. stand up and be a man about it. stick by your word.

    Post # 4
    1197 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    can they get a triple?

    Post # 5
    7997 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2013

    I would give Phillip a heads up and explain the situation depending on how close they actually are. Who knows… Phillip may not give a crap. It would be a nice courtesy to let Phillip know ahead of time so he can find a suitable roommate (assuming they have to share rooms), though.

    Post # 7
    5207 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2013

    Guys actually worry about this stuff? I learned something new today!

    Post # 8
    9412 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    @Tatiana0622:  How did it usually work with the colleague he shared a room with for 2 years? Who asked who or was it just assumed that it would be happening? Given he already agreed to share with the second guy, there isn’t really a way around it. I’m sure the first guy can find someone else to share with. 

    It does seem weird your partner would break tradition for no apparent reason but on the other hand it really isn’t that big of a deal. 

    Post # 9
    496 posts
    Helper bee

    @Tatiana0622:  John already asked him so he should stay with John. He will be rude for backing out now. Just tell Phillip, hey I know we usually room together but John asked me a few weeks ago so I am rooming with him.

    Post # 10
    6073 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    He should stick to rooming with John, but let Phil know soon so he can make his plans.  But then he and Phil can get together for lunch/dinner/drinks while at the conference.

    It’s not like this was their tradition for the past 5-10 years. 

    Post # 12
    1833 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2013 - backyard in the woods

    Why can’t all 3 share a room?


    Post # 14
    5160 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    What a popular guy! 

    Post # 15
    2169 posts
    Buzzing bee

    @Tatiana0622:  If I were in your DH’s situation, I’d give Phillip a heads up and not make a huge deal of it.

    Post # 16
    4819 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    … keep your word: room with John- but advise Philip ASAP out of courtesy.


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