- 5 years ago
- Wedding: May 2014
I am paying for our venue this month. It has taken me months to find a place that would be large enough for 12 people. This place is perfect, just about everyone will have their own restroom, bedroom. It won’t be crowded.
If someone give a child up for adoption to a close friend due to their inability to have children….does this count as immeadiate family? Some years ago my fiance and ex done this. Now it comes up that we should invite them…..they are twins.
I am not trying to be a bitch about this, but it has taken me months to find a place that would be adequate in size and space for everyone. Not only that, I really cannot afford to put 2 more people up for 4 days, it is just not it the budget.
That and I am only having my father, son and daughter in attendance. Now he want to have his mother, brother, two sons with wives, and now two more. Which greatly upsets the balance we were trying to achieve.
This whole wedding planning stuff is really starting to irriate me. I feel like I have to do what is accomadating to everyone else……even though I and my fiance is footing the bill. Elopement is sounding better each day!!
Am I being unreasonable? Should we invite the kids that were adopted by another family to our wedding?