(Closed) Ettiquite?

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1375 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

It is 100% fine to have uneven sides in a bridal party.


Post # 4
12882 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

As long as you’re okay with an unsymmetrical bridal party, then it’s fine.  It will get kind of awkward if you’re doing a bridal party dance, though, because you’ll have 4 girls without someone to dance with. 

Post # 5
1046 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I have an unsymmetrical party! One of the Groomsmen is going to walk down the isle with the flower girl =)

Post # 6
85 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

The great thing about weddings today is brides and grooms can make them MUCH more personalized and don’t have to follow tradition–my Fiance and I almost didn’t have even sides of the bridal party, but then he turned around and asked another one of his friends to be a groomsman.  I’d say as long as you don’t mind the aesthetic of having uneven sides, then go for it!  There’s no reason for your fiance to feel pressured to ask random people to stand up with him just for the sake of making it even–you want the people who mean the most to stand up there with you on your day! 🙂  As far as exiting the ceremony is concerned, a couple of his groomsmen can just escort two ladies down the aisle during the recessional.  No biggie!

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