- 9 years ago
- Wedding: September 2010
I am surprised that planning a simple elopement with just two of us could be so complicated! I am probably making it more complicated than it needs to be. I didn’t want to just go to the justice of the peace but now I’m getting to that point. Actually, I would be just fine with the justice of the peace but my fiance is concerned about being able to get married somewhere that is private.
I am trying to plan with someone out of state to get married on Valentine’s Day. Today I called back to confirm that we could use the location we chose and the response I got was “well you’re picking a prime time”. My gut feeling is to just go elsewhere. That’s not starting on the right foot… I asked her if she would like me to pay a deposit and she said no. I’m worried she will bump us for someone else who is having a bigger ceremony and will pay more money. I completey understand if she would rather leave that date open for someone else, but then I think she should have told me no upfront when I asked.
So I think I know the answer to this question… Should I start looking somewhere else? It took me weeks just to find this place…