(Closed) even my friends are getting in on it!

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
3639 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I would have wished he had heard it. At some point the guy’s friends should start calling them out on it.

Post # 4
61 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

My guys friends tell him all the time that he should propose, marry and have kids with me!  They can’t believe he’s waited this long.  Even the one that is going through a divorce thinks he should put a ring on it lol doesn’t make my guy do anything though

Post # 5
667 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I agree with @Everdeen:, I wish he would have heard it, to put a bug in his ear about it. Hopefully he’ll take the hing and put a ring on it. Or maybe trying on each other’s rings was a sneaky way of trying to get your ring size???

Post # 8
3303 posts
Sugar bee

I hope he heard that- glad the friend is sticking up for you!

Post # 9
338 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Too funny.. all our guy friends were dropping hints to him towards the end of our last semester of college.  We had been together for almost all of college, so 4 years at that point, & 1 of the guys would always drop in a “car seat” comment anytime they started talking about cars, his coworkers would say something along the lines of “good luck & let me know when you’re getting married” when he would tell them he was moving to Ohio to support me through grad school.  When all your SINGLE male friends are encouraging you to make it official.. that’s when you need to get your butt in gear & do it! haha.  I wasn’t in any rush actually & wasn’t really “waiting” when he proposed about a year after that, but it was still nice to hear his/our friends commenting!

And, OP, I used to get embarrassed & had the “omg I cant believe he just said that” reaction when his friends would joke about us getting married or having kids, & my now Fiance would never really react to it, just kinda roll his eyes & laugh it off (despite that he was already thinking about it, but just wasn’t ready to propose yet) & never really said anything, but I think even if it can seem awkward at times, it does more good than harm & it helps to have a bug in your guy’s ear to help push him along a bit! 🙂

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