Ever had severe lower abdominal pain after sex?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

When was your last gyno appointment?  Sometimes that can be a sign of endometriosis, but if you’ve been to the gyno recently and they didn’t see any signs of it, you’re probably fine.  I was going to guess pounded cervix, but you said he’s done that before, and you were ok.  Sorry if this is a TMI question, but were you guys well lubricated?  On a personal note, the only time I’ve had pain after sex was if I had an infection, though it wasn’t killer sharp.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Maybe this is TMI, but sometimes this will happen if I am constipated during sex.  I get these awful pains after and can’t get out of bed for a while 🙁

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

@MrsDrRose612:  Something like this happened to me once– it was an ovarian cyst. It only caused pain on one side, but my Gosh did it hurt. It also was uncomfortable and tender for a about a week afterwards– doesn’t sound like you are still sore, which is good. Maybe it was the weird angle!

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

The only time I felt that pain was right before I was diagnosed with kidney stones. 🙁 I hope you find out what’s going on soon!

Post # 9
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

I had this happen too! I actually started to feel sick from the pain. I felt better laying on the hard floor than the soft bed. I found out I was 3 months pregnant at that time but they couldn’t explain the pain I had that last time I had sex. After that I didn’t do anything again for a while. They said everything looked great but I’ll never forget that pain, guess I just blame it on my pregnant body lol. There’s no chance your pregnant is there?

Post # 10
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Bumble bee

YES! I’m still not sure what it was, but it happened in May. I have a few ideas but I’m not sure and neither are the doctors.

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

I’ve discovered that if DH and I do it in a position that gets him really deep (like doggy style or something similar) in the day or two before I start my period, I’ll end up in excruciating pain.  It feels like the worst period cramps EVER.  I usually end up curled into fetal position in the bathtub for about twenty minutes before the pain subsides enough for me to function.  It’s awful.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I was going to say cyst as well. They’re usually completely benign and don’t mean anything, but they hurt like a bitch.

When I had one, I had to lie down and not move because of how bad my lower pelvis hurt out of nowhere. My dog was whining, but I just couldn’t get up to take him out until the shooting part of the pain had subsided after a while. Also, I have an IUD, which can make cysts more likely. It hurt a few more times over the next week or two, then it went away and never came back.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee

@MrsDrRose612:  I would add that when it happened to me many of the above applies:

* week before period

* doggy style

* not much foreplay

* I have an IUD

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@MrsDrRose612:  If it is a cyst, and obviously there’s no way for me to know if it is that or one of the alternatives mentioned by PPs, I don’t think there’s any need for you to be scared. They’re generally harmless except that they can cause you pain when they rupture.

Read these if you want to allay your concerns:

http://women.webmd.com/tc/functional-ovarian-cysts-topic-overview

http://voices.yahoo.com/what-happens-ovarian-cyst-ruptures-7550110.html

And if it happens again, I would definitely go to the gyno for a pelvic exam.

 

Post # 16
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I’ve had this happen before. Someone mentioned doggy style. That’s when I felt that way.  I think it was from the air being pushed inside ?

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