(Closed) Ever seen your FI cry? (kinda long)

posted 9 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

The first time I ever saw my hubby die was when he had to put his dog down…I got to his house, he opened the door, and he just completely broke down.  It is really so very sad and all you can do is be there for him.

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I’m so sorry to hear about your FI’s cat – losing a pet is like losing a family member. When my FI’s beloved doggy passed away 2 years ago he was heartbroken. FI had his beloved pet for 14 years…and when they had to put her to sleep he just cried…

I’m so sorry again to hear about your FI’s kitty…

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

We had to put my fiances dog down this year on his birthday, we both cried together. Its never easy putting a pet down.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

I’m so sorry to hear that 🙁 Your poor fi (and you!).

I’ve never seen Mr V cry, really – some ‘happy tears’ welling up, but not proper cry. It would break my heart though, I think.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

When Mr. S’s grandmother passed away last year. It wasn’t a huge break down but it was nice to be there for him until he could go home to be with his family.

Post # 8
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

oh how sad! Your story makes MY eyes water.

I actually haven’t seen DH cry. Nothing tragic has really happened in his life since I’ve known him to really set him off.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Tannery Pond at the Darrow School

Ohhh, I’m so sorry to hear about your FH’s loss…That is hard 🙁

I’ve never seen my FH cry but in some wierd way, I wish I had… I guess I cry enough for the two of us (i seriously cry at EVERYTHING….commercials, while running, happy tears, sad tears, etcetc)…

Sorry again for your FH (((HUGS)))

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I am so sorry to hear about your FI’s cat. I can’t imagine what that must feel like. I’ve seen my FI cry many times (he’s really emotional.) I feel the same way as you, kind of priviledged that he is willing to let me see him at his most raw. I know you can never “replace” an animal, but are you two thinking of getting another cat soon?

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I’m so sorry to hear that.  Losing a pet is so very difficult.  Hopefully you both can take a little comfort in knowing that his pet lived a (very!) long and happy life with such wonderful owners.

Post # 12
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Oh I am so sorry about the kitty!!  I always say that I better die before my do b/c I don’t know if I can handle it if she dies!!  I never see my FI cry!  But like runrgurl10 says … “I cry enough for the two of us!” 

Post # 13
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Sugar bee

I’m so sorry to hear about your fiance’s cat.  I’m an animal lover, so I know how hard it can be to lose a longtime companion. 

I’ve seen my husband cry a couple of times over the last 13 years we’ve known each other.  Of course, at least one of those was sports related (when Michigan went undefeated and won the Rose Bowl & National Championship), so I don’t know if it counts…

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee

I’ve never seen my husband cry. I know there have been times when he has (lost a cousin that was still quite young and full of promise). We were in a long distance relationship at the time though so the best I could do is try to comfort him over the phone, which is incredibly difficult. He has also cried a bit over some dogs that died/had to be put down (he works at an animal shelter and he’s had some favorites that are no longer alive).

Post # 15
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Bumble bee

So sorry about FI’s cat – that is really difficult.

I have seen my FI cry several times.  The first time was when we went to the cemetery where his parents are buried (both passed away several years ago – long before we met)

He’s gotten teary-eyed on various happy and sad occasions – when he proposed, if my children say something really sweet, when he misses his parents, at a recent wedding of his nephew.

He “warned” me that he was emotional – and actually, i too, feel like it speaks volumes that “lets” me see him like that.

Post # 16
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Blushing bee

*hugs* I’m sorry for your loss.

Yes, I’ve seen FI cry.

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