Ever think about joining another couple in the same room?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Helper bee

I have thought that I might like watching, but not sure whether I’d be game enough to actually ‘get it on’ with my SO.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

i think i would like to watch or be watched but i dont know? How would i even find a couple. now you got me thinking

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I’ve made out in the same room as another couple but never had sex. Maybe if I was drunk. 😀

I’ve had fantasies about threesomes, like me, SO, and another girl, but I don’t think I’d ever act on it.

As for having sex with another couple in the room, it would depend on how comfortable I was, I guess. Never thought about it!

@Pokemon:  You could probably find a couple on a swinger’s website, although they may want to go further than just being in the same room eventually.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@Torrid: i just dont think i would be comfortable with randoms 🙂 this can just remain a fantasy i think 

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

thought about it, and did it, kinda on accident.  But you know, unless you find the other couple sexy, it didn’t work for me.  I kept finding myself distracted by what they were doing.  The girl made really strange noises and the guy didn’t seem to be trying to do a good job, lol.  I found myself critiqing their skills in bed and not focusing on what was going on on my side of the room! As a slight exhibitionist and voyuer it seemed like a great idea, and i’d probably give it another go, especially since this guy has a new lady (i mean the other girls noises were WEIRD! lol) So… i say do if you know some people, and if you do know some people discuss it after just one or 2 drinks, so your inhibitions and embarasment is less, but not so you’re a sloppy mess of bad choices! Also make sure EVERYONE is onboard. Even though my case was a lost cause of weird it did make me appreciate my partner even more! So it had an upside!  

Post # 9
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Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2013

We did this once and it was very unplanned but very fun. We talk about doing it again but I don’t know.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

We’ve talked & thought about it a few times but our issue is always the same- who would it be? We live in a pretty small town in the middle of nowhere so whomever we choose would probably have acquaintances in common with us. We’re business owners so we’d really hate for word to get out that we’re feaks in bed & playing with other couples…. Small town judgment can equal big problems sometimes… Maybe if we were in another town for a night or two….

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Done it 🙂

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

You can easily find swinger clubs, especially in florida. I believe the Trapeaze might be in florida. You can go there, have drinks, watch, particapate, eat, whatever. some are BYOB. Some are by membership. So you can go and do as little or as much as you want. I researched them but never went to one unfortunately because I was afraid the people would be barf worthy, not fanstasy worthy.

 

Post # 13
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Bumble Beekeeper

@Pokemon:  

@ChelseaLuv:  You could just hire two prostitutes (a male and a female) and have them go at it. I am sure it wouldn’t be the first time someone has asked them to do something like this!

Post # 13
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: April 2010

we would love to do this but dont know where to start we have had mmf threesomes but want to try this. but she would have to be very relaxed about he couple any ideas.

Post # 14
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Busy bee

I think it would be so interesting, but it would have to be close friends. I definitely wouldn’t want to swap or anything. 

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