everyone wants to know everything – getting overwhelmed

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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871 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@MsGinkgo:  I had the same problem! Five months out my sister wanted a detailed day of timeline. I was like uhm I have no clue! Now that we are two months out and I know the day of timeline and more details no one will respond to my emails! Go figure. Just relax and tell people “we haven’t figured that out quite yet” Seriously, we are two months out and I am JUST starting to put together some of those details. It is kind of crazy  how many details have to be worked out just to plan one thing!! I sincerely hope we start getting more RSVPs soon so I can work on more stuff or I am gonna go batty! 

Post # 4
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885 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@MsGinkgo:  I’m sorry you are feeling overwhelmed… don’t worry though you still have lots of time to get the finer details sorted!  I didn’t send a timeline to my family/bridal party/photographer until about 3-4 weeks before the wedding, and honestly that was how long it took to make sure I had all the info to send them.  You are much better off sending that information all at once, as opposed to telling them bits at a time. 

I also found the questions from people to be very overwhelming – just remember it’s because they are so excited about your wedding!

Post # 6
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885 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@MsGinkgo:  Oohh gotcha.  Yeah, worst case if you know what’s going on everything will be fine!  We didn’t even bother with a rehersal, and we planned our group first dance as we were being announced for dinner, lol.

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