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well, she's either trimming the fat or you really did do something to piss her off. either way, it's just the internets!
Giving the cold shoulder is kind of childish, imo...it might be better just to talk to her and figure out why she deleted you.
Probably not you real friend or perhaps what you choose to talk about on your FB rubs her the wrong way!
I've never checked my list so Im not sure If i Have been deleted ever. Well I wouldn't worry about it! Sorry that girls can be so crazy!
@Just_Squeeze:hahaa! yea probly just thatt, and yeaaa i am engaged and she didnt even have the curtisy to congradulate me like i did her when she got engaged.. she probably got mad that im joining the family she just joined not so long ago.. lol
@elliestan:lol noo i swear nothingggggg on my part at all. thats what bugged me out im like seriously?
I just removed a friend I'm close with in real life because she kept posting inappropriate things. And I'm constantly seeing people on here post about being annoyed with friends facebook status or constant pictures. There could be a million reasons - legitimate or not that she de-friended you.
@chesseplease: huh , well if your family, thats not a good way to start off! Try and mend things or see whats up, no cold shoulders!
I randomly delete people all the time... no real reason - just not wanting to connect on FB terms.... if someone I deleted gave me the cold shoulder when I saw them, it probably would only affirm that we really weren't 'friends' to begin with and it was the right decision.
@Just_Squeeze:Why does it always have to be jealousy? Not everyone is just itching to get engaged.
This isn't directed at you really but it seems that's the go-to explanation around here. "Oh your friend doesn't want to hear about your wedding?" She's jealous. "Oh your mom doesn't like the dress you picked?" She's jealous. "Your FSIL has been quiet lately?" She's jealous.
There are lots of reasons a person is removed as a friend from Facebook. I've cleared people out if we aren't as close or I didn't want to see their updates anymore.
First of all, it could have been a mistake. Or she might just be a person who periodically deletes people she hasn't talked to in a while.
I've noticed that sometimes when I think someone has deleted me, I find that their profile has just disappeared. Then it just reappears. I have no idea why people do that.
is it even possible to check?
Do you guys still hang out in the same circles/have the same stuff in common? I mean, I just trimmed the fat EXTENSIVELY in my FB friends. Not that I disliked or for any ill reason, it is just that many of them were people from a quite distant past with whom I had NOTHING in common with. Their "That was the most awesomest DJ ever" or "Can't wait to hit the dancefloor tonight" status updates made me a little forlorn for yester-year but mostly just don't interest me anymore. If I hadn't seen them or talked to them on FB at the very least in the last year, they were gone.
@Talishazwi: No, you're right. It dosen't always have to be jealousy. I just find it conicidental that OP just got engaged and now her friend is snubbing her.
Also, I didn't analyze too long because, well, it's just facebook. If OP really wants to know, she should call her friend. Otherwise, they are not that close to begin with.
@chesseplease: Also, my best friend often "disappears and reapears" because she is deactivating her account and then re-joining. She does this whpen she gets sick of facebook or annoyed with someone. Could that be the case?
@Oneeleven: lol I know seriously? Do people keep a tally of every person friended and their number of friends? I have free time but not that much.
I try to take facebook at face value....nothing more.
Firstly, I know you were just kidding about giving her the cold shoulder lol But anywho, I trim FB fat all the time.. I actually deleted myself for a little while but it turns out that all of my pictures are on fb and I don't actually have them saved anywhere else :(. So... you gunna ask about it? lol
@Just_Squeeze:yea were not that close like call eachother on the phone close but she is my fiances sister in law, to me that is close, we no eachother and have talked numerous times. i never talked ish about her and i know herf.b isstyll activated soim jus very curious why sumone would do that and start off my intro to the family as deleting me for no reason. jus makes yu think...
@Just_Squeeze:yea were not that close like call eachother on the phone close but she is my fiances sister in law, to me that is close, we no eachother and have talked numerous times. i never talked ish about her and i know herf.b isstyll activated soim jus very curious why sumone would do that and start off my intro to the family as deleting me for no reason. jus makes yu think...
What do you mean deactivate and activate? Do you lose your profile when you do that?
I delete people all the time. I'm a really private person and anyone I dont talk to in real life gets the cut. Its usually not a personal thing, I just dont want random people know about my lfie.
I love ya but your posts make my head hurt! 
@Oneeleven: If you deactive your account all you have to do is log back on to reactivate it. Facebook saves everything.
@Oneeleven: No. All your info remains intact until you reactivate. Your profile is just hidden from the newsfeed and that person is not on your friends list anymore until they rejoin.
@chesseplease: (yes, it is hard to decipher your words but I'm old and don't text speak, lol)
If this is your fiance's sister in law, does she have a problem with your engagement? And no, you can't cold shoulder a soon to be family member for this.
@Oneeleven: lmao i knoo my spelling i kno! im on my phone right now and i can not controll it! srry :)
@Just_Squeeze:i dont know if she does rlly? all i know is everyone congradulated me and she deffently seen the posts plus her husband was on my FHs ass asking him how everything went and wanting to no info which i new he would tell her ofcourse. so her jus deleting me out of no were got me thinking like wth did i doo lol
That is friggen awesome! I never knew! What about like your connections and stuff? Will my poor FI think I've broken things off with him if I do that? lol
No prob! lol
I had a friend that randomly just disappeared from my life around Christmas of 2009. Almost two years later and nothing. The last time we met and talked we had a great time and were making plans to meet at Disneyland a few weeks later. Her and her wife deleted me from FB and didn't return any emails, calls, texts....nothing. My FI suspects they were jealous of my weight loss, but I'm not sure about that.
To this day I have absolutely no idea what happened despite my polite request for some sort of hint. Oh well.
@chesseplease: I would call her just to chit chat and see if she brings it up.
@Oneeleven: LOL...I hope he won't think that! No, you lose no connections.
It really could be anything. I wouldn't take it personally.
I know I've deleted people for posting frequent illegible text-speak updates. It's a personal pet peeve. Could that be the case here?
I wouldn't worry about it. She has every right to trim the fat for whatever reason. Its FB not real life.
I was looking at some of my friends' pictures yesterday and saw that one girl changed her profile. I clicked on her name and saw that she blocked me from seeing anything about her except for some basic info - no posts, no statuses, no photos, nothing!!! We are not close, but we see each other every few months and she knows my family and she's invited to the wedding... I was so pissed off, I did exactly the same thing to her, blocked her from seeing any of my posts, info, pictures etc.
Yeah i realise every now and again that I've been deleted and funny thing is that after putting up a wedding picture as my profile picture several people who had deleted me re-added me..
Eh. Don't sweat it, it's only FB. I trim my friends list about twice a year.
I deleted several high school 'friends' when I decided to lock my FB down and trim my list really small (not that it was big to begin with). I don't think you should take it so personally. Just because you're not friends on FB doesn't mean you're not friends.
That's weird that you talk to her a lot and she still deleted you. Honestly, if I don't know you very well or haven't talked to you in years, I delete you! I went through my entire friend list and just started deleting... too many personal things on FB so I can't have just anyone on it IMO. But this doesn't seem like the case.
I know someone who regularly deltes people only to see who will request to be her friend again....Seems kind of weird to me, but to each their own.
I really wouldn't give it a second thought.
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just noticed someone i know quite well deleted me off facebook for nooo aprent reason.
it just buggs me how girls can be so ...ahhh wats the word .....(insert your own lol ) sometimes to some one who is nothing but nice to them...
w.e i jus cant wait to give her the cold shoulder next time i see her...hmphh
thoughts....?im just Bitchen....lol