Post # 1
Ok so I posted ‘Ex Anxiety’ a few months ago: http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/ex-anxiety#axzz2dnA9knXN
The cliff notes is that I have a crazy ex boyfriend I used to have a restraining order on from FIVE years ago. I STILL have anxiety and cope with it currently.
I had a Labor Day BBQ today and my mom said ‘Guess who Facebook friended me?’ I guessed her ex-boyfriend (lol) and she said No, your ex! Twice! At 4am.
O.M.G. She said she also saw that he posted sentimental music videos last night aimed towards me. Oh and she saw him in the paper recently for being arrested for a DUI.
What a psycho! FI and I have been engaged almost a year and are planning a June 2014 wedding. He has lots of friends and family who are cops so clearly we will need to have them on alert. We will have a wedding website with specific details, but will have it password protected. Not sure what else to do…I just can’t believe the nerve. He knows my mom and I are close so why he bothers her I don’t know…AHHH! Just need to vent!
Post # 3
He bothers her hoping it will get back to you, tbh. And it has. Some people are obsessive. Do what you need to protect yourself against this guy. He sounds really creepy.
Post # 4
Scary! sorry you’re dealing with this
Post # 5
- Wedding: February 2014 - Kentucky Center for the Performing Arts
Sounds like you need to get an updated restraining order…not sure how that works though when he hasn’t contacted you personally. I hope things work out, this is some extra stress that I am sure you nor your FI needs.
Post # 6
@krayzay87: +1 His plan worked. Sucks though that’s super creepy!
Post # 7
@krayzay87: Could be. I think he probably caved and contacted her…he did it at 5am when his past hijinx were at their boldest. She’s ignoring it and so am I. I never put anything on Facebook about him either. We do have some mutual friends on there..I never tell them anything about him either. So I don’t think he would know if it riles me or not.
Thanks everyone for your support!
Post # 8
Do we have the same ex? lol. You are telling the story of my life. Joking aside, I am soooo sorry you are going through this. *hugs* Nothing is worst than the “Ghost-of-Ex-from-hell-past” to come and harrass you and your famiiy. Stand your ground, ignore him, and hopefully within time he will stop living in the past and leave you alone once and for all. Good luck!!
Post # 9
Well I hope she promptly blocks him. What a creeper. I would be getting a restraining order.
Post # 10
@Skittles131: Definitely get that restraining order updated/extended! And block his ass on FB if need be. You don’t need that additional stress. We have a website too, but instead of password protecting it, we put a sign up process on it requiring our approval, and it filters out the spam sign-ups. If we see an address we don’t recognize, it doesn’t get far! Good luck and I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you to avoid drama.