- 5 years ago
I’ve been with my guy for well over 3 years.
About 6 weeks ago, an old boyfriend (I mean, from about 12 years ago) found me on facebook and asked to go get coffee and catch up. We dated for a very short time, and we were friends for years before/after the break up, but eventually lost touch. We talked on facebook about my boyfriend, his girlfriend, school, work… I thought nothing of it, so I agreed to go get coffee a few days later. We just chatted, no big deal. Then he tells me he actually didn’t have a girlfriend, and that they broke up, he just wasn’t sure if they were really broken up or not when he was telling me about her.
Ok… so what was the point of that? Really just coffee? Why lie about the girl?
Then 2 weeks ago, an ex tried to contact me on MYSPACE, ok, first of all, WHAT? Myspace? What is this, 2002? I never deactivated my account so I got an e-mail about it. I didn’t even respond, because we were never friends, only dated. He’s also a little bit insane.
Then 3 days ago, my ex, and one of my first serious boyfriends, my high school sweet heart, texted me about a recent family event. We were together for a long time (all of high school), we were really close, had a rough break up (again, we were in high school), but we tried being friends for a few years, but every time we tried, after a few weeks or months, he’d tell me he still loved me and would try to get me to go back to him. I haven’t talked to him in about 2 years because he did this again but I was dating my current boyfriend.
THEN last night, a guy I dated casually (never slept with him or anything) contacted me through another old account I had floating around. Again, this dating ended, oh I don’t know, maybe 7 years ago? I don’t have much to say about him because we went on just a few dates and I was never that interested, mainly because on date 3 or 4 (and our last date) he said he loved me, so I was like “WHOA BUDDY!”
Not really looking for any advice or anything, more of just… WHAT THE HECK IS HAPPENING? I haven’t heard from these people in years and suddenly they want to reconnect at the same time? Is there some secret plot I don’t know about? Is someome trying to make a film about the ghosts of my boyfriends past? Ok, I’m not that suspicious, but this is getting WEIRD.
It’s not making me question my relationship or anything, and I know I’m not going to meet up with any of them (except for the one I already met with). Anyone ever have a weird month like this?