(Closed) Ex Boyfriends Bothering You When Your ENGAGED!?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

not happened to me but im wondering if its because the ex is wanting a ego stroke of “oh yeah, you were a great guy” but i mainly think its curiosity as  part of him is trying to suss out to see if you have upgraded (which you have)

 

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

they want what they can’t have.

 

it goes the same with ex gf’s. We had a really big problem with fi’s ex. he had to even change his number.

Post # 6
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

I’m engaged and found better, yay!” LOL

and as a subline you can add “and he has a bigger penis”

men *roll eyes*

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

They def want to see if you are really happier without them…my ex messaged my MYSPACE account which I haven’t used in two years and the only reason I knew was because it was linked to my email and it popped up that he sent me a message. I laughed and told him I still thought he was the scum of the earth and to never speak to me again (he cheated on me and got the other girl pregnant, lots of bad things followed). My FI is waayyyy better than my ex, you really couldn’t even compare the two of them πŸ™‚

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@April_Fools_Bride:yea. it was not good. We almost had to get the cops involved. He was also thinking of getting a restraining order placed on her.

ughhh I am so happy that we don’t have to deal with that anymore.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Been there indeed. I think mostly its a matter of boredom, envy, and being unsatisfied with what they have (again wanting what you most definitely will never have again)

Im greatful that for the most part my bf and my respective ex’s have kept their distance for the majority of our relationship πŸ™‚ But that might have to do with the fact that we’re pretty private (aka hard to reach in the first place lol). Ahhh the precarious nature of the internet πŸ˜›

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

My exes harrassed me a lot more before I got engaged. I guess they didn’t realize I was SERIOUS about my serious relationship until we made it official. Life is a lot more peaceful now that I have gotten them off my back.

Post # 13
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5093 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

It happens.  My ex started harassing me as soon as I moved across the globe.  So, no new boyfriend, but the entire Pacific Ocean was almost as good a deterrent.  He would call me on Skype while his new girlfriend was in the next room and then tell me that he loved me (despite the fact that he never said it while we were on the same continent).  It was disgusting.  He finally got the hint that I wanted nothing to do with him, and now that I’m back in the same country with my fantastic, wonderful, amazing BF, the ex has mostly stayed cool…  except that he texts me and invites me to things waaaaaaaaaaaay too often, and he gives me these longing looks from afar every time he sees me with my BF.  It’s sickening.

Post # 14
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870 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

My FI has been my only bf so I have no ex’s but he was in ONE relationship before me and she has often tried to break us up…the last time it was while I was pregnant! He basically laughed in her face. LOL

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Oh geez, I had one send me a message and tell me to let him know if things don’t work out with my fiance. He continued to send me messages after I asked him not to, and it got to the point where I had to delete him from my Facebook and block his number. He kept asking me if I was really happy, telling me how much money he makes now, how his girlfriend he just left was so upset at life without him… how weird. And the weirdest part? He would sign each message with just his first initial, which he never used to do, and say “Regards to (my fiance’s name).” ??? What a creeper.

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