(Closed) EX Drama!

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Lodge

Well this is actually my exes now ex-wife (the girl he married after me). My ex and I have a child together and they have a child together so drama tends to include me even when I don’t want it to. The most recent thing is that she filed a complaint to DHS on my ex stating he was an abusive father to her kid and so of course DHS had to pull my kid in to question him. I was livid because my ex has been nothing but a good father and my child did not have to go through being talked to by DHS. The charges were unfounded and the real reason she filed them was because she was mad at ex for not letting her have their kid on a weekend that wasn’t hers.  Its pretty sad when my 10 year old says his ex step mother is evil…his exact words.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee

No, actually. We’re really fortunate.

Post # 5
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11753 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

No. We have no contact with exes. 

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Lodge

@countrylove:  She is crazy. I’m just fortunate enough that I don’t have to deal with her much. But when I do its stupid crap like that. 

Post # 8
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317 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

My husband’s ex, whom he had been away from for 2+ years when we got together suddenly started “finding” things that belonged to him and calling him about it.  This was conveniently about a week after she cornered one of his friends and drilled him for info.  My husband, then boyfriend finally told her to donate it to charity and stop calling him!  

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

He used to have a crazy ex (she may still be crazy, but we don’t have to deal with it anymore). SHE broke up with HIM TWICE, and kissed another guy the first time around in their relationship. We started seeing eachother about 3 months after their 2nd break up and she wanted him back AGAIN. She was telling everyone that he was cheating on her with me and all this drama. She started talking to my then bestfriend and saying how I was a “boyfriend stealer.” I ended up losing my bestfriend of 5 years because of this drama.

About 2 years into our relationship, she saw one of my friends at a mall (whom she NEVER MET BEFORE). She starts talking to him and telling him that she recognised him from MY FACEBOOK! Needless to say I blocked her and made my profile private.

Post # 10
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Blushing bee

@memo:  good reminder to set those privacy settings as tightly as possible.  I would freak out.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Can’t say that we do. DH’s ex did tried to friend him on FB after we were married, though. She cheated on him numerous times, so he divorced her. But I guess with the news of our engagement, she decided to text him to say congrats. He just ignored it, and she went away. Lol

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

My  ex is  bat shit crazy. He was abusive, mean and insane. Still is. He remarried his first wife and even though we have been divorced for 5 years and they have been married for a year he still text me twice a week hoping I will take him back.

He wanted to send gifts to our kids for christmas but according to the permanent restraining order he isnt allowed to have our address. So thats a no go.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Yep, FI’ ex wife is big ole bag of crazy. Honestly had I known what I was getting into with her I probably would have run the other way when I met FI, ha. I keep thinking it will get better, but nope. I have just accepted it and try to tune it out because even though I have to deal with her crazy ass I get 2 wonderful step kids out of the deal 🙂 

Post # 15
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Oh man, both of our exes are crazy. 

His stalked me online, would come into work (FI and I worked together before we dated) and stare at me, got my contact info and would message me, calling me a whore and a homewrecker, etc. She broke up with him initially because she wanted to be a lesbian (only to come back a couple of years later and tell him that she wanted to get back together because she was straight again), then spent their relationship verbally and emotionally abusing him, being very controlling and crazy, and then cheated on him and told him that it wasn’t a big deal. He broke up with her and she FREAKED. Right after that, she flew down to Florida to see the guy she’d banged, came back and moved away, then moved back and tried to get him back (um, we were dating, and she was NOT happy). She went on a blind date after she moved back, moved in with the guy almost immediately (within a month or so), got pregnant, and married him. We live in the same town but rarely see each other, thankfully. Unfortunately, his friends are still friends with her (on Facebook anyway, although one of them still hangs out with her). She also sends FMIL Christmas cards, baby announcements, party invitations, etc.

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

Luckily neither one of us do which I’m vey happy about

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