(Closed) Ex Files…Why the heck?!

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar bee

My Ex was a very sweet guy, more of a friend though.  So we would still talk once every couple months just to see how things were but he stopped talking to me once I got engaged.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee

I would just let it go, I think you shouldn’t correspond with someone like that…they only want to drag you down to their level!

Post # 6
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2010

That is kinda random, eh? Did they find out you’re in a new and happy relationship ?

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Sometimes people hate their life so much that they want to bring other people down with them.  I think your are stronger for the fact that you didn’t let it bother you and you never responded:)

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper

Maybe he just recently found out that you’re in a very happy relationship? Can we ask what the texts said? I definitely wouldn’t respond, but people lash out when they feel insecure like that, and maybe he was trying to just hurt you in any way he could b/c you’re happy and he’s not.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee

My sisters ex will randomly do stuff like that after he’s been drinking.  Really mean stuff.  She just ignores it or tells a mutual friend what he did so it gets back to him that he’s acting like an A$$

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Probably he’s going through a rough time and decided to lash out at you. Maybe he holds a lot of resentment and something happened and he got him thinking about you again and “blaming” you for his rough patch.

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Looks like he got touched by the jealous fairy:)

Post # 13
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Busy bee

CREEEEEEEPster.

Post # 14
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2010

He’s seeking attention. He is super lonely and possibly depressed and wants to get a reaction out of you. People do this on facebook all the time. He was also most likely drunk or on drugs. Ignore him. If he persists, text him that you have no problem alerting the police that he is harrassing you.

Post # 15
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Sugar bee

He’s an a$$hole.  Just ignore him, and he if continues to text you terrible things–I’d look into a different number or contacting the police.

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I’ve had a similar experience and can sympathize. I didn’t hate him or anything when I broke up with him, just was really unhappy and couldn’t see a future in it. I tried to be as nice about it as I could – although there’s really no nice way to break up with someone, I suppose. He showed his true colours after the break-up though! He kept saying unfair stuff to a mutual friend that he KNEW would get back to me. Also sent me a really bitter and mean-spirited email, like two years later! The funny thing was, at the end of it he told me he was engaged (and she was so much nicer than me, obviously). It always hurts to be insulted, even when you know it’s 100% BS, but I actually had to laugh a bit. I felt sorry for his fiancee, because obviously he was more in hate with me than in love with her. At any rate, I never responded.

Losers. 🙂

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