ex is back!!

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: What do you think he wants from me?
    Sex : (21 votes)
    34 %
    He wants you back but is afraid to admit it : (4 votes)
    6 %
    To be friends : (0 votes)
    Back up girl : (35 votes)
    56 %
    Other please explain : (2 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    3237 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    You should ask him what his intentions are with you. Not sure how you feel about just hanging out with him and talking about the future without being together but I wouldn’t be cool with it. If he is so up front about wanting babies with you then he should be honest about what his plans with you are.

     

    Post # 4
    Member
    904 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2010

    OP, you know him best, but it comes across really skeezy to me/something doesn’t seem right. I’m not familiar with your story, but it sounds like you’ve been doing well without him. You deserve better/more respect than just being dumped from your FI out of the blue! I hope you’re able to get some answers from him and don’t get hurt again. Good luck! 

    Post # 5
    Member
    2368 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    He wants you to be his back up bitch.  The chick who will put out if he says the right nice things about how much you mean to him, how much he loves and adores you, the horrible mistake he made by leaving you and how his life will never be the same without you.  When he finds someone he likes better, he’ll drop you for her.  I’ve read your other posts.  Delete his number, block him on FB and kick his ass to the curb like the garbage he is. 

    Post # 6
    Member
    1199 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    It’s hard to say without knowing you guys personally. But I think you should take a step back and concentrate on yourself. It sounds like this girl was his rebound from you and now you are his. It’s way too soon to get back together. I wouldn’t trust him just yet. I think you should date, be single and enjoy the single life with your friends first. He left you out of the blue and now you are easy target to get what he wants, if it is just sex. Dont make it so easy for him to get you back. 

    Post # 7
    Member
    4576 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    *This* sounds like a guy I used to date 🙂 I was his girlfriend, he wanted to marry me, etc….but only in front of me and if he had a trip coming up he’d suddenly “want a break.” This has several red flags, I would stop having him over to kiss and cuddle, period.

    Post # 8
    Member
    2665 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2016

    Tell him to hit the road!!  He’s a skeeze-ball OP! Tell him to take his ” attentions” and shove it!

    Post # 9
    Member
    11379 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    @Futuremrssw:  honestly, i think he’s using you.  don’t fall for it.  you were probably just healing from the heartbreak.  don’t allow yourself to take a step backwards.  be strong and stay in control.  he is not ready for a commitment.

    Post # 10
    Hostess
    15072 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Hmm, it’s time for him to sh*# or get off the pot. Sit him down and straight forward ask him. Tell him this is not a game, this is your life and feelings. Time to grow up and make a choice, you in an adult relationship or hit the road. Nothing wrong with being friends, I’m friends with all my ex’s, and some were friends with benefits years after breaking up (back in my single years) , but that was clear to both of us. It’s time for that discussion now before someone gets hurt. 

    Post # 11
    Hostess
    2920 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    I voted back up girl. To me, it definitely sounds like he wants to keep you on the back burner.  Never be anyone’s 2nd choice.

    Post # 12
    Member
    1340 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    Back up girl. Don’t fall for it.

    Post # 13
    Member
    3570 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I think you should read your old posts and remember how much hurt and pain he has caused you.  That is your answer. 

    Post # 14
    Member
    4483 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    Don’t know your story but it sounds like he can’t stand being single, so as soon as he dumped one girl, he needed another. I could be wrong, but guard your heart carefully until he shows you that you are his one and only

    Post # 15
    Member
    964 posts
    Busy bee

    OP, I would not touch your ex with a 39 1/2 foot poll. That’s how skeezy he sounds to me.

    Back away from that fool.

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