Post # 1
Hello bees , firstly I want to say a massive thankyou to everyone who helped me on my other posts 🙂
so i told you about ex FI basically dumping me out of the blue , this was back in February . in april he got with someone else this lasted three weeks LOL , he sent me a texmasses age after they had been going out for 2 weeks apologising for not telling me sooner and that he was scared of my reaction I just said dont worry about it and got on with my life , three days later he ended it with her ??
anyway since then I had a huge family crisis and ended up phoning him (he didn’t answer) but ended up speaking to my cousin and the next thing I new he turned up outside my house , he had got a taxi down from a night out. this ended up in me staying at his house in his bed kissing and cuddling all night . The day after he text to apologise about kissing me .
We have been in contact ever since texting all day every day going for dinner a couple of days a week ! He about marrying me and me being the mother of his babies and is so sexually suggestive ( I havent slept with him and he knows I wouldn’t without being in a relationship ) but I other than that he hasnt said in exact words that he wants me back .
He goes on holiday with his friends next week and all my friends say he wants to be single for that’s but Im not so sure.
What does he want from me ?
What should I do ?
P.s sorry if there are any grammar mistakes I am on my ipad
Post # 3
You should ask him what his intentions are with you. Not sure how you feel about just hanging out with him and talking about the future without being together but I wouldn’t be cool with it. If he is so up front about wanting babies with you then he should be honest about what his plans with you are.
Post # 4
OP, you know him best, but it comes across really skeezy to me/something doesn’t seem right. I’m not familiar with your story, but it sounds like you’ve been doing well without him. You deserve better/more respect than just being dumped from your FI out of the blue! I hope you’re able to get some answers from him and don’t get hurt again. Good luck!
Post # 5
He wants you to be his back up bitch. The chick who will put out if he says the right nice things about how much you mean to him, how much he loves and adores you, the horrible mistake he made by leaving you and how his life will never be the same without you. When he finds someone he likes better, he’ll drop you for her. I’ve read your other posts. Delete his number, block him on FB and kick his ass to the curb like the garbage he is.
Post # 6
It’s hard to say without knowing you guys personally. But I think you should take a step back and concentrate on yourself. It sounds like this girl was his rebound from you and now you are his. It’s way too soon to get back together. I wouldn’t trust him just yet. I think you should date, be single and enjoy the single life with your friends first. He left you out of the blue and now you are easy target to get what he wants, if it is just sex. Dont make it so easy for him to get you back.
Post # 7
*This* sounds like a guy I used to date 🙂 I was his girlfriend, he wanted to marry me, etc….but only in front of me and if he had a trip coming up he’d suddenly “want a break.” This has several red flags, I would stop having him over to kiss and cuddle, period.
Post # 8
Tell him to hit the road!! He’s a skeeze-ball OP! Tell him to take his ” attentions” and shove it!
Post # 9
@Futuremrssw: honestly, i think he’s using you. don’t fall for it. you were probably just healing from the heartbreak. don’t allow yourself to take a step backwards. be strong and stay in control. he is not ready for a commitment.
Post # 10
Hmm, it’s time for him to sh*# or get off the pot. Sit him down and straight forward ask him. Tell him this is not a game, this is your life and feelings. Time to grow up and make a choice, you in an adult relationship or hit the road. Nothing wrong with being friends, I’m friends with all my ex’s, and some were friends with benefits years after breaking up (back in my single years) , but that was clear to both of us. It’s time for that discussion now before someone gets hurt.
Post # 11
I voted back up girl. To me, it definitely sounds like he wants to keep you on the back burner. Never be anyone’s 2nd choice.
Post # 12
Back up girl. Don’t fall for it.
Post # 13
I think you should read your old posts and remember how much hurt and pain he has caused you. That is your answer.
Post # 14
Don’t know your story but it sounds like he can’t stand being single, so as soon as he dumped one girl, he needed another. I could be wrong, but guard your heart carefully until he shows you that you are his one and only
Post # 15
OP, I would not touch your ex with a 39 1/2 foot poll. That’s how skeezy he sounds to me.
Back away from that fool.