Ex-MOH still wants to be friends?

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

Can you post the link to the other post? I am not sure what happened with her, so I don’t feel like I can really advise…

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@Annonfriend:  Oh jeez, I remember your post. And I remember her AND her husband were very toxic. I dunno, this comes back to you and how strong of a bond you think you have with her. Is it worth it to bury the hatchet with her and then months later she’s back to acting crazy again? On a scale of 1-10, with 1 being the least, how much do you really want to be friends with her? 

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

Ah, thanks. Well, she sounds horrible, frankly. Sticking her cat in your face? That’s slightly sadistic. 

Personally, I’d let the friendship go, especially since she’s married to that jackass.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - British Columbia

Let me put myself in your shoes, OP…

First, I would say a little prayer to bless her heart and forgive her for the ignorant things she’s done. I would recycle the card and oops, misplace the originating address in the recycle bin.

The past is the past. Always be grateful for meeting challenging people like this. Look forward to creating a new family with your FH. Reading a brief sypnosis about your ex-friend makes me dizzy.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

I wouldn’t worry about it. You already said your piece and now she’s had hers. I think you can be done, here.

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - British Columbia

@Annonfriend:  Nope, you aren’t responsible for giving her closure. You are very lucky your friendship with this lady ended somewhat amicably.

No originating address? That doesn’t give you a chance to send the pictures back or send a thank you card, does it? Anyway, if the friendship is meant to be, you guys will pick up from the point before your fight. That’s what best friends do. If she can’t even respect you, then, you’re better off moving on.

 

Post # 15
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Bumble bee

@Annonfriend:  I remember that thread- I don’t think you owe her an explanation or closure. Just let it go the way of the wind 🙂 Let it drift far, far away; never to return 🙂

Post # 16
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

If I remember correctly, the real problem was Dan, who is very controlling. You could suggest you’re happy to meet her without Dan from time to time. She may need you if Dan turns abusive.

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