- 5 years ago
- Wedding: November 2014
Hi all! so last night I had a talk with my SO about Christmas gifts. I said I would prefer him to save his money for an engagement ring than buy me a gift, especially since we are spending alot of money right now to go back and forth to each other’s houses over winter break. I asked for a nice love letter for a gift. He asked why, and I’ll admit I was being pouty/brattish, and told him I was trying so hard to be good, but the truth was that if he gave me any gift that wasn’t a ring I was going to be dissapointed. He has done everything right, my crazy mind got the better of me, and I told him it was my own fault for my feelings, not him.
Today now, I was browsing rings again. I found out last night that the trail I was hoping he was trying to throw me off with, wasn’t existant. he has NOT ordered any ring in planning to propose on Christmas. That’s fine, but I was still hopeful =/
But anyway, I asked him while we were both on our computers what his price range wouldb be if I wanted something “sooner” or “later”. He actually gave me a vague range for “sooner”!! I’m so excited because I think some of his apprehension is that he will get one I don’t adore- I’m just a very picky person, so I see where he has that concern.
I’m just excited because I feel that we had a succesful communication about the whole thing. Just wanted to share excitment with someone =)