(Closed) Excuse me?

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@kendra389:  I just think you’re over reacting a tid-bit. 

Kind of come off as mildly controlling with the “we’re not watching it” attitude. 

Let me let you in on little secret…lesbians like other women not men. No need to feel threatened lol 

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

@Laurenskii:  I don’t think she’s threatened by lesbians, just grossed out by her FI’s reaction

@kendra389:  I don’t think you’re out of line but I do think you’re overreacting a bit. Male fascination with lesbians is kind of common and how turned on could he possibly get by watching them wear wedding dresses? I mean, really.

Post # 6
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Men will oggle and fantasize regardless of if they see a your wedding show or not.

I would’ve thrown a sock ball at him and continued watching.

Post # 8
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2058 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@kendra389:  if it brothers you tell him why. Everyone has their fetishes and LOTS of men have one for lesbians if you’re feeling confident you could turn it into something that could help yoir sex life! Not saying threesome but maybe watching porn together. Promise hell be more turned on by you being open to it than what’s happening on the screen. 

Post # 9
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7085 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I get what you’re saying. I will never understand why guys are so obsessed with lesbians… 

Post # 11
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Sugar bee

@Laurenskii:  that’s such a weird response. This guy was acting like a chauvanistic pig & your response is that OP should watch lesbian porn with him? No, he should grow up & learn that lesbians are humans and more than just their sexuality. Omg. 

Post # 12
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300 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@kendra389:  How about lesbians have NO interest in sleeping with your fiance. Why don’t you inform him of that? I think the disrespect towards the couple is worse. 

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013 - A court...

Nope, I don’t think you’re over reacting, is be annoyed as well. Idgi, why are lesbians over sexualized, its rude and gross (I mean guys that get excited when they see two chicks together ). I don’t get all giddy when I see gay guys . Sigh.

Post # 15
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2058 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@mamadingdong:  I’m more saying you could try not to make him feel like a pig for having a fetish. Obviously not whip put the porn after that but down the road it could spice things up lol maybe I’m more open and less turned off than most women will be on this topic. By no means am I saying it’s okay to treat lesbians like sex objects but there are LOTS of things that walk a line when it comes to sexual fetishes. 

I’m sorry if you took what I said the wrong way. 

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

@lovebirds08:  kind of what I was thinking …

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