- 4 years ago
- Wedding: June 2014
My ex and I live in the same neighborhood (not ideal i know). Anyway he was a monster and did some really bad things while we were together and i left and have been with my current FI for two years now.
My ex has a girlfriend/FI for about the same lenght of time and over the last 4 or 5 months something strange has been going on.
I’ve blocked her from facebook because I don’t have time for that drama. Then about three months ago i notice someone was repinning every single one of my pins on Pinterest…….it was her. I blocked her.
Last week, I bought a new running shirt……she bought the same one BUT she doesn’t run….or at least i thought she didn’t.
This morning i was taking my SD to her mother’s and my ex’s gf stopped walking/running and began screaming at me, f’ing bitch, whore, f you, stupid c**t, I had my windows down, pretty sure my SD heard it all, she’s 4 🙁 not cool. I didn’t even look at her, kept driving and calmly rolled the window up.
When i saw her today, she was wearing the same running shoes, similar shorts to mine and silmilar top and had her hair pulled up just like mine………
In two years I have never, ever, ever saw this girl run and I run all the time. And it didn’t look like she was a “steady runner” she looked like a beginner. I’m getting ready to train for a 1/2 marathon, she didn’t look like she could run a mile……more power to her if she’s doing it to better herself but it feels like shes doing it just to, dare i say, be like me.
My ex is a master manipulator, he used to say things “what can’t you be like so and so” or “so and so did this for me” I can hear him saying stuff like that to her. I’m not going to make a big deal out of this morning but Bees, do you think this girl is trying to become like me?? She isn’t physically hurting me but I just think it’s odd that you would pin/follow/act/dress/try to do the same things as your FI’s ex.
Should i be watching myself? I don’t want to over react, I also know, being that i work in the legal system there isn’t jack i can do until she treatens me. My ex and her have a video camera pointed at my house……I don’t know if it is real or not……i just know it’s creepy and we can’t force them to take it down.
FI and I keep our mouths shut and we go about our business. We both work long hours and we take care of his daughter in the evenings, for the most part things stay pretty calm but the last few months this stuff has been popping up. My ex pushed me to the brink of insanity……maybe he’s done the same to her.