Post # 1
Quick question: Do you usually keep your eyes closed or open during sex?
I usually close my eyes a lot during sex. Not all the time- I still like looking at my SO during the act, but sometimes it just helps me focus on the feeling.
My SO keeps his eye open the whole time.
I was wondering if other bees keep their eyes open or closed most of the time?
Post # 3
I think I mostly keep my eyes closed because it helps me just focus on the sensations, but every once in a while i love to open my eyes and look into DH’s eyes. It feel very intimate.
Post # 4
It really depends but mostly open.
Post # 5
Never thought about it but I’d guess I have them open more than closed.
Post # 6
Fiance really likes to turn the lights off, and I’m blind without my contact/glasses, so open or closed doesn’t make a ton of difference. I think I alternate with open with mostly closed.
Post # 7
Not sure. I guess it depends…
Post # 8
I never thought about what my eyes are doing but I always notice SO close his eyes. I couldn’t figure out why and asking him never crossed my mind lol. Thanks for giving me some insight OP!
Post # 9
@Eckle: same here! I wonder if it would look different?
Post # 10
Usually eyes open for me.
Post # 11
I do some of both but they are open more often than they are closed.
Post # 13
I think mine are more open than closed. I will have to remember to pay attention to this next time.. haha
Post # 15
Always open! I can’t imagine just lying there with my eyes closed. There’s no connection for me that way
Post # 16
Closed more than open. But I do open them. It’s probably 70% closed, 30% open for me. SO seems to be more 50/50.