Post # 1
Just wanted to share with the bees as I have been feeling so BLAH about waiting in life and on the boards the past few weeks.
I have been good with the SIUP since our last timeline discussion a few months ago (June 2015 wedding with year to plan). However last night HE brought it up and asked me how I felt, if I still really wanted to spend my life with him and why I wanted to get married.
I got SO nervous answering but I told him (as I swear I tell him all the time) YES he is the man for me, and I want to get married because I am so happy, confident and sure and want to take the plunge and start our lives together!
*pitter patter pitter patter* goes my heart waiting for a response, getting all smiley and shy like its our first damn date!
And he tells me: he is so excited, he has a special plan, and some days he just wants to drive to the jewelry store and do it ASAP.
So I said half jokingly… WELL DO IT THEN!! haha. He laughed and then I explained: I only want you to do it if you really want to, I dont mean to pressure, Im just excited.
And he told me: He is so excited too, but he wants to give a buffer as his brother got engaged a week or two ago but he is DEFINITELY asking for my parents blessing when we see them in March
I asked him (while were at it I figure) if he remembers the timeframe we last talked about, June 2015 and if that still makes sense to him.
And he said….
He doesnt want to say too much more but all sails ahead for a June 2015 wedding, with atleast a year to plan. He said to just be happy and patient and let him get it done!!!!
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH I wanted to scream and dance in the restaurant booth and do flip flops and cartwheels but I just smiled. So I am just going to relax (SIU) and enjoy my last spring of girlfriend-ing!!! It also goes to show that if your bf is feeling you out about marriage: break the damn pact!!
Post # 3
I thought about selecting all the choices in the poll… but this is most definitely excellent news!!!
Post # 4
@Squirrelz15: haha thank you. I am just all smiles today!
Post # 5
I just selected them all.
It’s THE MOST SO VERY FREAKING EXCELLENT!
Post # 6
@CakeyP: haha thank you!
This board is just the best. I feel like I can’t talk to my single friends about this because they so badly want to be in a happy relationship and I dont want to rub salt in the wound. And my married ladies are just sick of hearing about it/busy and are sort of “let us know when it happens”!
Nice to have ladies to chat with in the same boat!
Post # 7
YAYAYAYAY!!!!!!!!! So exciting!!! I selected them all, I couldn’t resist.
Post # 8
@His-Sunshine: thank you! I feel like this:
Post # 9
@MrsBuesleBee: Awesome news! So exciting to have a positive talk like that. 🙂
Post # 10
@MrsBuesleBee: ahhhh that’s lovely and I enjoyed reading that! Very happy for you and could feel your excitement reading the post lol!
Post # 11
:D:D:D – that is so awesome!
Enjoy moments like these, you won’t have them after the proposal, which is almost sad enough to make you not want it at all….nah! 😛
Post # 12
@MrsBuesleBee: I selected all the options on your poll! It’s so freakin’ exciting!!!! 🙂
Post # 13
SO exciting! Waiting days like that make all the horrible waiting days worth it. I love it when your SO makes it obvious that it’s been on their mind and you can tell they’re super excited too. *EEEEEEEEEE!!!*
Congrats, hopefully the next few months go by quickly and smoothly! 🙂
Post # 14
@MissMarple: haha that is the best gif! Thank you!
@oriskany: @Everdeen: @Cinderella7: @Carob83: Yay thank you for the good wishes ladies <3
Post # 15
Woohoo!! I’m sorry to hear that you were having a hard time earlier. This update must feel so wonderful! You don’t have to worry or wonder anymore it seems about if and when it’ll happen. I’m happy for you!
Post # 16
I’m so excited for you! That’s amazing 🙂