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Facebook Stalker!

posted 2 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: How bad is your Face Book stalking?
    Not Bad- I really only talk to family and friends : (10 votes)
    14 %
    Okay- I sometimes look up people I don't talk to anymore : (32 votes)
    46 %
    Pretty Bad- I look up exes and ex-friends : (18 votes)
    26 %
    Super Bad- I search for everyone!!! : (9 votes)
    13 %
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    Lauren1018    May 28, 2011   Mass

    Don't lie, you do it too! And I think I look for stuff on my enemies more than I check in on my actual friends! It's awful!!

    I just friended someone I hadn't seen in like 3 years... looked over her whole profile with eagle eyes trying to catch any tidbits of info I could find before possibly meeting up for drinks... signed off...then signed back on thinking "I didn't even check for an enagement ring!" and looked through all of the pictures again...

    With everything you can see on FaceBook these days... can people tell when you look at their profile??? If so... I must look like some type of crazy b$#&h!

     
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    BostonHelen    September 16, 2012  

    HA! I am sure we all do this. What's the fun of FB if you can't cyber stalk your arch nemesis!

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    I don't do much on Facevook.  I have only friends and family on there and I try to avoid friending people that I barely talked to in high school.

     
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    Hearts Sottero    May 23, 2012   Iowa

    I'm terrible at it. I stalk people I haven't even really been friends with, just knew back in highschool. Or exs, I stalk pretty much all my exs.

     
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    MsMamaBear       Atlanta

    I'm lame. I don't stalk anyone except my friends & family I talk to all the time.LMAO

     
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    naangel55    June 20, 2009   Long Beach, CA

    I have sometimes but if Im not friends with them on FB most of the time I cant see anythiing because of the privacy settings anyways.

     
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    Chipmunk      

    Stalking is such an ugly word. I like curious more then anything. It was definitely easier to be curious of frien-emies when facebook first started because it was for college students and everyone had their profiles set so that everyone else could see them. I got rid of mine. If you do a search and type facebook I always see articles about privacy concerns etc. so I took down everything and deactivated that sucker. I don't care about so and so's life I care only about mine so I got rid of it. Plus, I don't want to be applying to grad sschool and them looking me up ha

     
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    tobemurphy10    October 10, 2010   MA

    I need Facebook rehab. I am the worst! It's really bad, but at least I can admit it

     
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    Chipmunk      

    @tobemurphy10: I need weddingbee rehab!! It has replaced my fb

     
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    Teaserama    March 18, 2010   Dunedin, Fl

    Um, I don't even have a face book. Embarassed

    But awhile back before I was engaged I used to stalk ex's on myspace.

     
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    JustlikeHeaven    March 6, 2009  

    Im pretty bad. lol

     
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    jgibso27    May 21, 2011   Thousand Oaks, CA

    When I friend them, I do some digging but after that I leave them alone.  I wouldn't call it stalking really.

     
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    Miss Geek    May 27, 2011  

    Lat year, fi's ex girlfriend added him as a friend and i accepted so that i could look at her pictures. I then deleted her and she re-added him. (he knew about this and was cool about me on his facebook). She then sent him a message that was like "hey how are you i have something important to tell you, i miss you!" (a little bit on the back story - fi broke up with her because she cheated on him with 5 guys in one night and then didn't date anyone for 4-5 years until i came along). I looked at her pictures, saw she was single with 2 kids and fi re-added her and responded to her message. She sent a couple of desperate messages including one where she told fi her brother had died, he sent her an "i'm sorry to hear that" message and then when the "do you miss me?" crap continued we sent an email that made it very clear that he was confused why she thought they were still friends and that he is very happy and does not miss her. Haven't heard from her since.

     
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    msmonicka    June 19, 2010   Milwaukee, Wisconsin

    Lmao!! So funny! I haven't done it in a really long time. Probably about a year or so.

     
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    BeautifulKatastrofie    May 13, 2011  

    @Miss Geek: My FI's high school girlfriend added him last year and he didn't want to accept but I got him to just cuz I wanted to see her page, lol.  She has never said anything to him so I'm guessing she wanted to see his page.  

    Most of the time I don't spend much time on peoples pages, just read what comes across the news feed.  I usually only check out pages like once a month and usually I check more enemies then friends.  Whats weird to me is one of my exes added my brother as a friend for a day and then deleted him, then his mom added me and deleted me a day later as well.  I have a funny feeling that what was going on with me was of interest to them, lol.  Since then she added me again and I accepted because I really have nothing to hide, my profile is mostly public to begin with (outside of my actual posts).  I am the worst about FB creeping when I have a paper due because it makes procrastinating easy!

     

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