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    Fishies22    September 4, 2011  

    Hi all....looking for your thoughts on dress color. The pic posted below is actually gold...though it looks lighter! I am very fair skinned...and always thought that a true white would look best. Gold and ivory seem to wash me out. However, all white taffeta seems to look "cheaper" to me. Thoughts?! Fair skin ladies, lets see your dresses!

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    BrooklynBride10    October 9, 2010   nyc

    Here is my dress:

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    It's diamond white, and not too bright.  Looked great against my skin tone!

     
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    allieisasweety    August 6, 2011   Lake Tapps, WA

     The dress I purchased was white, I literally tried on Alabaster (ivory) and diamond white, but they looked AWFUL against my skin tone. Honestly the satin material also looked really shiny and cheap in the ivory and diamond white colors. I'll show you what I mean. I'm super pale, but you can't really see it with this low light camera ;).

    Here is the alabaster. Do you see what I mean by looking cheap/too shiny?

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    Here is the one I ordered. The EXACT same dress, but this is in white. I just love it in white, and hate it in alabaster. Isn't that bizarre?

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    muckmoo1      

    I think it's the opposite, I am very very fair and blonde and I found that the whiter the dress the more washed out I was, I went with an ivory satin and it actually brought out some color in my skin.

    I attached pics of my dress.

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    Mrs Grape    December 10, 2010  

    I solved the white/off-white dilemma by wearing bottle green. :) Fair Skin Ladies...show your dresses! :  wedding 12 21 2010 115840AM

    ETA: Though to be fair, when I did go and try on a few "traditional" wedding dresses, I found that diamond white was best. Stark white was too much and the darker ivories almost blended in with my skin tone.

     
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    JewishBride    June 13, 2010   Michigan

    Fair Skin Ladies...show your dresses! :  wedding 062Fair Skin Ladies...show your dresses! :  wedding 31875 1481521003949 1411546598 31279308 4623072 N   Copy   CopyI wore ivory and it was perfect:)

     
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    BrooklynBride10    October 9, 2010   nyc

    @Mrs Grape:  I love your dress!  Gorgeous color!

     
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    jayelcee85    April 9, 2011   Georgia

    I went with "ivory" color from David's Bridal. It's an actual true ivory color as opposed to the brownish white people refer to as ivory. I think it made a big difference. I am EXTREMELY pail (blonde hair, blue eyes..go figure). Anywho, the first pic is me in the ivory and the second is white! :)

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    kitzy    June 2011  

    ivory is usually recommended for pale brides. have you tried on a true white? i think it would just wash you out.

     
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    napabridekelsey    August 13, 2011   Live in Corvallis, OR/Wedding in Napa, CA

    Oh man, I'm as white as white gets. My dress is a 'winter white' and it has blush under it, so it picks up whatever color is in my skin:

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    Mrs Grape    December 10, 2010  

    @BrooklynBride10: Thanks! You look gorgeous in yours, and the detailing on the skirt is awesome. :)

     
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    allieisasweety    August 6, 2011   Lake Tapps, WA

    @jayelcee85: Lol I think I'm the crazy one in the bunch. I prefer the white on you a lot more. Lol go figure.

     
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    Mrs Grape    December 10, 2010  

    @jayelcee85: I love the white dress on you, too--it warms up your skin tone nicely.

     
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    jayelcee85    April 9, 2011   Georgia

    @allieisasweety: Lol. That was a HUGE decision the night I bought my dress. I had three of my maids with me and we were all split. I'm surprised my consultant didn't go nuts! Lol.

    I do feel less washed out in Ivory though. Maybe it's a mental thing? ;)

     
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    AmeliaBedelia    March 3, 2012   Georgia

    Mine is David's Bridal Soft White. The color looked AMAZING on my skintone. I didn't look pale at all. I don't have any pics - FI uses my computer. lol.

     
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    Running Elley    June 19, 2011   Fresno, CA

    My dress is ivory and I think it almost makes me look tan and I am REALLY not tan at all...I felt completely washed out, Twilight-esque in actual white

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    gabrielleelise1981    August 28, 2010   Portland, Maine

    I thought ivory looked better on me than white did. My dress was a very warm ivory color:

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    .twist.    October 7, 2011   Alberta, Canada

    My dress color was called "pearl".

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    Baileyh    July 24, 2010   Vancouver

    @Fishies22: Im whiter then white..and i even tanned before the wedding, but to no avail. My dress is ivory.

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    mg4eg    June 18, 2011  

    My dress is a color called oyster - it is a neutral/silversih off-white silk satin. I thought that the cooler color looked better on my than a traditional ivory. Here is is:

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    mg1363    March 10, 2012   San Antonio TX

    Maybe it has to do with skin tones. Maybe white looks better on people with warm (yellow, olive) undertones, and ivory looks better on people with cool tones (pinkish). OR vise versa. So maybe that plays into it somehow.

    I just looked to see if I could find an article and I found this one.

    http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1835269/white_wedding_dress_shopping_for_your.html?cat=46

     
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    napabridekelsey    August 13, 2011   Live in Corvallis, OR/Wedding in Napa, CA

    @Running Elley: Haha, Twilight! That's how I feel some days!

     
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    futuremrshubbard    July 2011  

    I am very pale, probably as pale as pale can be without being albino.  I tried on man different colored dresses alabaster, ivory, etc. mainly a bunch of versions of white and off white.  This is the dress I decided on, it's called Soft White.  Not a pure white, but also not an ivory. 

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    mikaylav3    March 23, 2012  

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    i'm really pale and I chose ivory :) 

     
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    rkbecker    May 29, 2011  

    I'm pretty pale, especially since moving to snowy PA from FL!  My dress is "latte"

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    prettylady    8/7/10   NC

    Our wedding day was the darkest I have ever been.

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    goldelox84    April 30, 2011  

    I also thought that white would look best on me, but in truth, I hated it. I actually look much better in ivory to my surprise.

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    mandb122    March 6, 2011   Temporarily in Minnesota, From South Carolina, Wedding in Charleston

    I am extremely pale and I picked ivory for my dress color.  

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    soonerpsych    June 26, 2010   Oklahoman at heart, now in Southwest FL

    I had an ivory dress because diamond white (and champagne surprisingly!) looked washed out on me.

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    The champagne runner up dress, though it looks ok in this photo was a wash out with my skin tone in person:

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    jmb584    August 28, 2010   New York, New York

    I wore ivory/latte (the sash). The veil was ivory, though the lace edge almost had a yellow tinge (which matched the sash, amazingly), because it's an antique that was passed down to me.

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    kmystery    September 10, 2010  

    i'm very pale as well and i found that a light ivory worked best

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    RR    October 2012  

    @mg4eg: So pretty, who's the designer?

    Thank you for this topic discussion, I am struggling with the same problem!!

     
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    CupCakeMeg    December 18, 2011   Orange County, CA

    I chose IVORY! I hope it looks good with my skintone! 

     
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    mrsmdphd    April 17, 2009  

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    I, too, rocked the blonde hair, blue eyes, bordering-on-albino (I prefer alabaster) look on my wedding day.  I didn't even attempt to tan because I figured that there was no point in trying to fool anyone.  My dress is Alfred Angelo's "Ivory", though to be honest, it didn't really look all that ivory to me or anyone else.  Especially not next to the "white" flowers that were a last minute Costco purchase when none of my flowers actually made it in from Ecuador.  But that's a different post :).

     
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    amyisnice    September 18, 2011   Austin

    @Fishies22: love the neckline of your gown! 

     
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    Bubu82    October 1, 2011   Indianapolis, IN

    I thought white washed me out, so I went with a dress that was listed as Ivory, but it actually looked almost like champagne, which I liked.

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    However, I just got a sample of the fabric the other day from the bridal shop, and it is much, much lighter looking than these pictures and the sample dress. So we'll see...

     

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