Fake Profiles–Really reconsidering marriage..Advice needed.

posted 2 years ago in Family
Post # 2
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288 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Your FI needs to put a stop to this YESTERDAY. His sister, his problem.  Keep ignoring her.  Is he aware of the fake profile business? Does he know it’s to the point where you are questioning your future?  

Post # 4
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288 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

If you have proof it is her, I would show it to him.  “Crazy” or not he should still hear you out.  See what he says.  I know a lot of people say family doesn’t matter if you love him blah blah…but when you sign up for the man you sign up for the family too.  They can make life extremely difficult and personally I would probably be wondering the same thing.  

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

Why would you re-consider marriage over this?

Post # 8
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245 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

maybe you should ask her to lunch and have a real convo with her. Hopefully you can get her on your side explain to her whole hearted your situation. Tell her you want to work out your and her relationship and that yes you are family with her too, and need to be on same page. 

Post # 10
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288 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

bananchik:  I don’t think she will be able to rationalize with someone that creates fake Facebook profiles.  

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

Thing is, you and FI already have kids together, so whether you marry him or not, this crazy lady is already your daughters’ aunt. FI needs to lay his foot down and make it clear that her behavior will not be tolerated.

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

partyplanner83:  I agree that she’s a crazy person, but if u can get a crazy person to be on your side, maybe she will leave her alone and will stop the crazyness towards OP. Just a thought, I deal with crazy ppl on a daily basis, if they think you are on their side they shift their focus on something else.

Post # 14
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Busy Beekeeper

maldel83:  How do you know she created a fake profile on facebook? That just seems like conjecture to me unless she came right out and admitted it. 

 

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