- 6 years ago
If that happened to me and Fiance, it would happen ONCE, if you get my drift.
Tell him not to bring it up if he’s not serious, it’s not something to joke about. 🙂
yeh i no,
do u think age makes any difference ?
we have been together for over 5 years but do u think the fact we are still young should make any difference ?
he seems to. but i dont :/
I’m 22 and getting married. If you’re ready then you’re ready. But by his reaction and him not taking it seriously, he may not be.
i just dont understand why he brought it up if he hasnt thought about it :/
i just dont know what to do 🙁
i dont want ti pester him but i need to know where i stand. if that makes sence ?
You have to be 100% comfortable with this guy if you want to marry him, you shouldn’t have to worry about ‘pestering’ him. Just be up front with him, it’s better to find out his plans for the future now then waiting another five years and finding out he doesnt want to get married.
i dont mind bringing the conversation up with him, i have done a million times. He says he does want marriage and kids but not now as he is still young.
I just dont want to be an older bride or an older mum and he knows that. Is it too much to ask for just an estimate of when ?
He shouldn’t have done that, but maybe it’s just his sense of humor, or maybe he just wanted to see what you would say. He is really young so he was probably just being silly or just wanted to see your reaction. either way if you’ve been together for this long then you should be able to talk about it and he should be able to answer you… If not then he doesn’t seem serious at all. It may be the age.. some guys just aren’t as mature at 21.
You’re 20! you have like another 15 years until you’re even close to being considered an old bride or mom! You don’t want to rush this and he does not seem ready at all.
I agree with JessicaPop, you have so many more years ahead of you before anyone would consider you “old.” He is young and also sounds young so he was probably just testing the waters.
I think he was just seeing if you would actually say yes. On a vacation my bf and i took about 4 years ago he asked me if i would say yes if he asked me to marry him.. i smiled ear to ear and was like YES i would say YES! He said good to know, that part makes me nervous..
STILL waiting for a ring haha
good luck, maybe he was just testing the waters like pp said..maybe have a talk with him and let him know how you feel, guys seem to not get anything ( unless there like my Boyfriend or Best Friend and its about cars trucks or motorcycles) unless it hits them over the head a few times!
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