Falling apart

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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3959 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@SoLonely:   I’m sorry.  *hugs*   Is he generally last minute with other things, or is it happening only with wedding related plans?  

Post # 4
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595 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@SoLonely:  Why is he having such a hard time getting stuff done and making it happen? I’m kind of confused.

Post # 5
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1143 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2015 - Holly Hedge Estate

@SoLonely:  sorry you’re going through this 🙁 Is it because things are tight with him financially Right now? what does he say when you bring it up? I know you said it leads to arguing but what points does he try to make while arguing? **hugsssss!!**

Post # 6
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1202 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Is it just the ticket and the suit? If it is, I would just chalk it up to procrastination, and not cold feet.  Maybe he’s looking for the best flight deal.

Or are the plane tickets and the suit just the last straw? 

Post # 8
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110 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

@SoLonely:  Sorry to hear that you’re going through this. It seems that there quite a few issues here and I have a few questions that may help myself and other bees better understand your situation and offer some advice:

  • Why do you say he does not do anything for you? In what sense?
  • How long have you guys been planning the wedding? Has he been participating in all other preparations? 
  • How are all the other wedding preparations going and who has been paying for them?
  • What makes you think that he just does not love you?
  • How long have you guys been dating and when/how did he propose?
  • Why do you think his family hates you? Are they coming to the wedding and if so, have they booked their tickets?

 

Post # 9
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595 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@SoLonely:  I may be out of line in asking, but are you sure you want to marry this man? It seems like this is small drop in a BIG bucket of issues that could happen over the course of the rest of your lives together. 

*My intentions aren’t to offend you but I think you should really think about it. 

Post # 11
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2073 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I’m confused. If you feel he doesn’t love you, care about you,etc… why are you marrying him?

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

@SoLonely:  Why did you want to marry someone who has never been nice or sweet to you? Do you want to marry him or were you in love with the idea of a wedding and marriage?

Post # 14
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213 posts
Helper bee

It sounds link he doesn’t want to marry you and I’m really curious why you want to marry him. 

Post # 15
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213 posts
Helper bee

I’m sorry you’re going through this but better to break it off now than have a miserable marriage and divorce. 

Post # 16
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1072 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

+1 on the “Why are you marrying this guy again?” question. He’s not nice or sweet. He doesn’t do things for you. You don’t think he loves you. He didn’t even propose. And his family apparently hates you.

?

What do you see in this guy?

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