(Closed) Falling Out with Bridesmaid. Help!!

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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12827 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

You really can’t un-ask her to be in the wedding without looking rude, but you can approach it like you’ll understand if she backs out. Explain how she has been making you feel, and say “I understand if you no longer feel as though you can support me on my wedding day” or “I understand if the financial cost isn’t what you anticipated” or something along those lines. 

Good luck handling this!

Post # 5
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82 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

 

Hi there we had a similar situation, the best man in our wedding was being totally ignorant to my FI making him feel terrible, and on top of it apparently didn’t like me for reasons totally unknown. To top it off he is my FI cousin. He has recently been through a bad time, and was taking situations out on my FI and his brother, as he grew up being very close to them. So after a month of verbal abuse from him, he decided that he was not going to have him as his best man. Last thing you wanted was someone to stand for you that didn’t like the bride. And he didn’t seem really into the wedding, and with our luck he wasn’t going to bother giving him a Stag!

On my FI B-day, he received a text message from the Best Man wishing him a happy birthday, my FI thanked him and explain due to the recent events he was asking him to step down and he asked another cousin, and said to him he was asking him but not to tell him. Well the first thing the ex-Best Man did was phone up and tells him… It was all a bad situation, but the best decision! The Best Man now couldn’t do more for us and can’t believe how the ex-BMan acted towards it all.

The people who stand beside you are the ones that want to see you happy and be proud of you that day!! You just need to talk to her maybe she is having some other issues… is she married or in a relationship maybe this is all hard on her.

Good Luck in what you decide to do and approach it!

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