Post # 1
So my wedding preparation has been a bittersweet taste in my mouth.
Firstly i lost my parents at the age of 14 and my family (my mom’s mother disowned me) and i lived with my teacher which also passed on since than i’ve been living with friends to living on my own to living with my Fiance, i than called my granny just out of respect told her of my plans and she was happy a month later i get calls from people saying i am so rude and never told my granny of my wedding plans and she’s heart broken i was shocked because i called her and she lives so far from me and i told her we will try and make a trip but she needs to be at the wedding and she is acting as if she was never told, my entire family are dropping out of my wedding playing guilt trips and i just feel like calling off my wedding.
Post # 2
Do not call off your wedding due to the actions of other people. You have the support of your friends and your fiance’s family. We may not have the best supportive family out there and that is something some of us have to face and deal with. Your wedding day is the day you may the love of your life who is your best friend. If they don’t want to be there to support that is their issue and not yours. You stay strong and move forward and don’t allow them to see you sweat. You already know that you let your grandmother know and you said that she disowned you a long time ago. You tried to make amends and it didn’t work for now. Doesn’t mean that they will not come around later. You move forward with your wedding plans. Who’s suppose to be there for support you on your wedding day. Stay positive bee. You will be okay. Do you have any support from your fathers side of the family?