- 2 years ago
- Wedding: September 2014
I’m so embarassed because my fiancé put all of his family together at one table (aunts/uncles/gparents) and I am having a hard time with this. We are doing a sweetheart table and then putting my fiancés family at one table and mine at another, and then arranging the guests after that… Unfortunately there is a lot of hostility on my paternal side of my family (my father, his sister, and his other sisters husband are all hostile towards each other for various reasons). My maternal family is not living in this country so they aren’t attending the wedding. I am wondering if it would be horrible of my to have my parents table include them, my brother with his girlfriend, and two of my dads close friends with their families. These two friends are both traveling long distances for the weddings (one is coming from another country and the other from across the US) , so I feel like if my aunt and uncle get offended, I could justify that my dad has short time with his two friends. How important is it to have the aunts/uncles at the parents table?
Otherwise, I can just seat everyone at that table and hope for the best :/