- 5 years ago
- Wedding: January 2014
Just venting really. I get frustrated that my family show no emotions. This is generally normal for my parents,they are very gaurded people. But there is zero eemotions about my wedding when I am around. Every boyfriend they have met they didn’t like and tell me after I break up ‘oh good, he was too girly’ and ‘oh good he’s too quiet’ I’ve asked them if they dislike my fiance and they deny that being an issue. My parents are contributing some money for my wedding but don’t want to be involved in planning it. However they tell everyone we know all the details.
I made my sisters bm’s and they aren’t even excited enough to organise their shopping day get together for shoes, hair pieces etc. So much so I have offered for them to not be bm if they’d prefer, no offense taken by me. Then they get upset saying I’m threatening them, and they never said they didn’t want to be bm. ( these girls cancelled the shopping trip 3 times very last minute & weren’t even feeling bad) I’m just frustrated. Mixed signals and I’m left feeling like I shouldn’t be excited about a wedding and I shouldn’t talk about my plans.
Sure hope they start making an effort when we decide to be a family.