- 5 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
i wish i saw the website sooner……… well the wedding is in 8weeks and in the lest 6 months of planning i lost my bestfriend of 14years my baby (step) sister is no long taking to me and said that she is not going to be in the wedding party anymore stop paying on her dress and well not go to the wedding 🙁 my dad and setpmom hasnt talked to me in about a month and to top it off they were going to help me with the food and cake and ive tried to call them may to to see if they are going to still help me and they well not return my phones or texts…..
well my exbestfriend and i stop are friend ship over the wedding she didnt like the dresses she didnt like who she was standing with so after think and talking to my fi i told my exbf that i no longer wanted her to be in the wedding that she was fighting me on everything and that she was more then welcom to come to the wedding but just not be apart of the wedding party that didnt go so well she got super hurt and told me that i was wasting my moeny and that i think that the world is revoling me and my fi i told her that only on 9-8-12 it dose im a really laid back about the whole wedding i just want my family and friend to have a good time so when she said this i dont get what she was talking about so we keeped going back and forth and the more i was trying to keep are friendship the more it was ending in front of my eyes she was just so unhappy for me me that i told her that it a happy time in my life that i wanted to be around people that love us and that are happy for us we never talked again i really miss her but i fell like i cant change her mind so it is what it is
well my baby(step) sister is the baby sister ……. well i was talking to my stepmom we start talking about the wedding and asking about my 2 sisters dresses when it just truned do u want you baby (step) sister in the wedding witch came out of no were i told her that i didnt care witch i really do but im not going to make a person do some thing that they didnt want to do they ( there is much more to this that i couldnt put down) well i told my stepmom about some thing my bbsister was doing and she didnt want to hear it she got super mad at me and wont even call or text me back…. so now my in law and the wedding party are pulling together to to help my pay for the food and cake and i dont even think my dad is going to come to the wedding just bcause i told my stepmom somthing about her kid its dumb and lil kid shit im just done with it all we are going to have a great day with or with out them them there