(Closed) Family Issues

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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157 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I have never been through this but i wanna give you a virtual hug, for having to deal with all that crap. ((hugs) I say screw the “grandma” she doesn’t sound like she even deserves the title, let alone an invitation to your special day-especially if it would make you feel uncomfortable. Don’t even mention it to the aunts.

Post # 4
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3302 posts
Sugar bee

If you don’t want her there, don’t invite her!

Post # 5
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255 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

I believe you know the answer to this already in your heart of hearts. I’m of the mind that if you can’t envision your day without a person present they should be invited and vice versa. Since your relationship with Grandma is tepid at best and you yourself do not view her as “worthy” to attend, then she should not. 

Another way to look at it is this: How much larger would your wedding be if you were to invite every single person who’s ever commented on a FB post?

Invite your aunts as you have a in-person relationship with them and you seem to hold them close and their attendence in importatance. Grandma doesn’t need an invite.

Post # 6
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310 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Have who you want to be there. 

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