(Closed) Family mess… long one

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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457 posts
Helper bee

Wow, I’m so sorry your going through this, it’s very sad to not have your family support and more so after going through a tragic event. Why is your FI not liked? I mean I think for starters you need to find out the Why and then see what can be done to resolve the problems and issues so everyone can at least tolerate it. Your FI doesn’t have to like your FI but they shouldn’t be bad mouthing him to you.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I agree..why don’t they like him?

If they are bad-mouthing him, but not being open with you, certainly they are in the wrong. But, it sounds to me like they def. really love you, and you should be able to talk to them.

Maybe they are afraid they are losing you in some way.

Post # 6
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5892 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

what was it that he said?

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

Maybe it would help if your FI tried to apologize and let them know how much this is hurting you and that maybe for your sake, they could put differences aside for now, so you can be happy.

Post # 8
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1641 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

It is absolutely, positively never too late to apologize.

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