- 8 years ago
- Wedding: October 2010
I’m new and this is my first post (as a side note, I really wish I woulda found this site prior to now, but oh well). So, here is what’s going on…
Bit of background: Not long after my sis met her now hubby, she introduced my brother to his cousin and they became friends. My brother in laws aunt adored my bro and sis. I was around some, but not as much as my bro and sis. Anyway, fast forward a few years later and my bro committed suicide, which needless to say, tore everyone up (it was about a week after my sister’s wedding). So, for awhile everyone was real big on family and support and all that. I became closer to the bro in law’s aunt and she told me and my sis she wanted to unofficially adopt us (since we are adults). My biological mother hasn’t been in the pic in some time and honestly is not missed.
Fast forward to “today”: My sister, “mother” and some others do not get along with my fiance and their way of dealing with being upset with him is to not tell him but to bad mouth him. My sister was suppose to be my Maid/Matron of Honor but told me she does not want to be in the wedding. She then told me at a later time she feels she owes it to me to at least be at the ceremony. WHAT?? I sent them both an email a couple of weeks ago telling them I needed emotional support (so stressed out for so many reasons) and was, in a nutshell, told no. I will have no siblings in my wedding and am extremely hurt by this.
I’m sorry this is so long, but I guess I’m wondering if anybody else is dealing with this kind of thing? Thanks for letting me vent.