- 3 years ago
- Wedding: August 2014
i need so advice. so my fiance and i have been planning on getting married in my aunts garden for awhile now. ever since we got enaged three years ago. well we deiced on a date and have spent the last 6 months planning for our 2014 august wedding. well lately it just seems like she has put on so many restrictions on what we can and can not do. i feel like this is her wedding and not even mine at this point… first it was the guest list it could only be at 30 guests and that HAD to include any and all vendors i was haveing DJ/Photographer etc… now we cannot dance in the yard. but she is allowing for a tent to be staked into the ground and 30 chairs and tables…. im sorry but i have given up plenty of traditional wedding things to have this at her house but this is one thing that i really dont want to give up. i want to have a first dance a father daughter dance.. but that brings me to the point of we have just about a month.. and even if i could find a new venue.. how do i go about informing everyone of the change?? any help or advise would be appreciated.