(Closed) father and step-father

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

It is totally up to you. Lot’s of bride are in your situation and have both of them walk them. Some brides have one walk them the first half of the way and then the other one walk them the rest of the way. If you are going to have “Who gives this bride…” in your vows, both of them can say they do.

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I am exactly in the same situation! I am having both my stepdad and dad walk me down. Either people like it or they don’t.

Most people who find out that both are walking me down get teary eyed because they think its so sweet.

Go for it! Do what makes you happy and those that love you happy!

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

I, too, am in a very similar situation, except that my father has pretty much always had a presence in my life.

I’m having both of them walk me down the aisle.

Of course, I’ve been thinking then that with a dad on each arm, I can’t really carry a bouquet.

What are you all doing about flowers? Maybe a pommander?

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Don’t worry about the bouquet, hold it anyway and link them both in! 🙂

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

That’s a difficult situation. My mom remarried when I was 5, but my dad stayed close by. I always was closer with my dad than I was with my stepdad, although my stepdad was always there for financial support when my dad wasn’t. I would like to walk down the aisle with my dad, but I don’t want to act like I don’t appreciate everything my stepdad has done for me. I guess the only thing you can do is discuss it with both of them, and find a special way to acknowledge them both.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I am having both as i am very close to my stepdad and not so much my dad, unfortunately my dad was give 4-6 months to live in Nov., my wedding is in June.  I hope for the best

Post # 10
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

girl, i went through the saaaame thing. i recently told my Dad that both him and step dad were walking me and he is happy with it. he knows i have 2 dads. i was literally in panic mode waking up in the middle of the night over it for months. everything is all good now and im soooo much happier!!

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