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    CincodeMayo12    January 1, 1992  

    Hi everyone!! This is my first post, and I really need some help with Father/Daughter dance song!!

    I'm already a really emotional person, and I know I will be especially on my wedding day... my dad and I are really, really close. I'm really excited about sharing that moment with him, but just thinking about it already makes me cry, so I can't even imagine how bad it will be on the day! I don't mind having a tender moment but I am really worried about straight up ugly-crying on the dance floor and really would like to avoid that... Even if it's an upbeat song, I'm still going to cry just because of the nature of it, so I'd like to minimize that...

    Dad really wants a slow-er song, so I'm looking for a compromise. Sweet and slow, but minimal emotional-ness... (I won't need any help in this department! haha)

    We have even considered starting with a slower song and splicing into a faster one ("September" by Earth, Wind and Fire because we have lots of fun memories to that song and even a special funny dance we always do haha) and I think that might help offset some of my crying by making it more fun and upbeat (which is more our personalities- goofy and fun haha)

    Thoughts on this?? Thanks so much!!

     

     
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    LittleMissPolkaDot    October 20, 2012   Pittsburgh

    My father wants to do the chicken dance for just this reason. We have decided to dance to "Sunrise, Sunset" from Fiddler on the Roof. We started listening to it everyday so that we are sort of desensitized to it by the time the day comes, and hopefully we don't cry like small children. 

    Good luck!

     
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    abbie017    March 16, 2013  

    I Loved Her First by Heartland.  It makes me cry every time. 

     
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    awcm    July 1, 2012   Vancouver, BC

    We're using "My little girl" by Tim Mcgraw, though since i picked that i can barely listen to it without crying so i can't imagine what the wedding day will be like!

     
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    kfiorita    October 4, 2014   Adelaide, South Australia

    This may not be what you are looking for but the song is called butterfly kisses.  It is really beautiful and always makes me cry.... but in a happy way of course lol

     
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    mrsaponte    August 25, 2012  

    My dad and I are also using My Little Gril by Tim McGraw.  Its perfect.

     
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    furtureffcaptwife    July 28, 2012   Texas

    My dad and mys song is Unforgetable by Nat King Cole...it alwasy has been...so that's what we are going to dance to

     
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    KatNYC2011    September 24, 2011   London, UK (american expat)

    We did a joing mother/son and father/daughter dance to Wonderful World by Louis Armstrong.

    I am VERY close with my dad as well and teared up just thinking about him walking me down the aisle and dancing with him. However when it came time for both I was just so happy that I didn't cry and just really really enjoyed it.

    If we had done a father/daughter dance by itself we probably would have done "Wind Beneath My Wings" which would have really had me sobbing. My sister and I sang that for my dad on his 60th birthday about 8 years ago and everyone at the party was in tears.

     
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    MrsProf    January 7, 2012   Georgia

    We just did a joint mother/father dance with My Wish by Rascall Flats. We honestly didn't even pay attention to the music as we talked the whole time.

     
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    lobbyart    February 19, 2012   New York, NY

    We're having Come Sail Away by Styx for the parent/kid dance.  It gets fast, so that cheers things up.  I'm a Ramones kind of girl and most trad father/daughter dance songs have kind of creepy undertones to me...

     
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    impatientlypatient    November 24, 2012  

    We are dancing to "Daughter" by Loudon Wainwright III

    You can listen to it here, it makes me cry everytime even though it is so upbeat and happy

     
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    quishi    March 17, 2012   Guaynabo, Puerto Rico

    Try:

    http://www.weddingwire.com/wedding-songs

    There are lists of songs for every wedding moment imaginable!

    I'm walking down the aisle to "Daddy" by Kendall Payne, it is a tear-jerker! My mom and I cried when we heard it and I knew it was perfect. I know a lot of the comments said that they were gonna use it for the father-daughter dance. I'll be dancing w my dad to "A song for my daughter" by Ray Allaire. I liked it because it has an old fashioned sound and the lyrics are beautiful. My dad loved it too!

     
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    kc3636    August 23, 2011  

    My father and i danced to Have I told you lately and with my stepfather : Thank god for kids.

     
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    shambley    October 15, 2011   Overland Park, KS

    We used "You've Got a Friend," by James Taylor. And I agree with PP, the key is to listen to it until you're desensitized!

     
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    LisaPB    May 26, 2012  

    We are dancing to My Girl by the Temptations. It's a faster paced song, so hopefully it will be minimal crying.

     
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    Jane323    March 23, 2012   Albany, NY

    We are doing Daddy's Little Girl as done by Michael Bolton.

     
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    bridesmomma    June 19, 2010   Northern California

    I think your idea to mix a slow with a fast song is a great one!  Plus, it will be fun for your guests instead of hearing one long emotional song!

     
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    petitfour    March 13, 2012  

    I think we are going to use Sweet Pea- by Amos Lee...

    Its the only song that I can sit through and not cry when I'm thinking about dancing with my pops :D

     
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    Jane323    March 23, 2012   Albany, NY

    @petitfour:  Love that song! Im contemplating that one for my cake cutting song.

     
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    doily    March 2012   Iowa

    My father and I were going to dance to "Never Let Go" by Rascal Flatts. Its a beautiful song. I never cried to it before, but now that my dad is gone, I tear up everytime I hear it.

     

     
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    Loribeth    December 1, 2010   Michigan (Married in Savannah, GA)

    We went with something really old: “What A Wonderful World” by Louis Armstrong.  For us it was perfect. 

     
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    Liz0808    November 25, 2012  

    I am having a really hard time with music in general. Slow songs aren't really what I listen to and so many of them are just sooo cheesy. I also thought about "Daughter" by Loudon Wainwright. Now I am thinking about Stand By Me. I am rooting for "let It Be Me" by Ray Lamontagne for our first dance.

     
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    radiolassie82    October 20, 2012   Rockledge, FL

    I'm going with I Loved Her First by Heartland too. It's a tearjerker. :)

     
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    nissa26    April 21, 2012   Indianapolis

    My dad and I are dancing to My Hero (the acoustic version) by Foo Fighters.

     
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    PookyShoes    June 15, 2013  

    @MrsProf:  We are dancing to that song too!...also a joint father/daughter  mother/son dance

    perfect song :)

     
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    blue44    July 31, 2012  

    I am dancing to wildflowers by Tom Petty. It is not too sappy or slow!

     
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    michelle22214    August 25, 2012   Grand Rapids, MI

    I am thinking that my father & I will also use My Girl by the Temptations...it is a little faster pace and its one of those songs that just kind of makes you smile. I think it should cut down on some of the emotionalness or at the least the ugly crying.

     
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    marlew    October 23, 2010   Ajax, Ontario

    We used Answer by Sarah Mclaughlin - one of his favourite singers, and a song that was slow, but nice.

     
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    nutMeg13    September 22, 2012   Buffalo

    I like "what a wonderful world" by louis armstrong

     
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    kswiftbride    June 8, 2013  

    Me and my dad will be dancing to Then They Do by Trace Adkins.

     
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    allyfally    January 1, 2017   Louisville, KY

    I dont think I'll be having a daddy daughter dance, but if I do it will probably be Darius Rucker - It wont be like this for long.

     

    It doesnt fit my dad though. Which is why I'm thinking I probably wont do it at all.

     
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    smcs28    July 6, 2013  

    hmmm, my hero by foo fighters sounds good....I'm having a problem since I'm not a sentimental person....but would like to have the father daughter dance....I'm also a rock chick

     

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