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Favor donation to place of work tacky and weird?

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    fabulouslyengaged    8/1/09  

    So, I work for a nonprofit. Like many organizations, we have been hit HARD by the recession.

     At the same time, I'm trying to figure out what to do for favors for the wedding...

    I know articles are suggesting to give donations to nonprofits instead of favors. So, could I give a donation to the place where I work? Would that be strange? I work for a small arts company... only about 4 of us on full time staff and everyone else are performers. 

    However, if I make the donation to another organization, I wonder if people will go "that's strange. why didn't she just donate to the place she works!"

     What do you think?

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    ES123    April 25, 2009   Laurel, MD

    Go ahead and do it. It's a non-profit that I assume you and your fiancee feel passionately about, you know that it could need the help - and it's ultimately your money you are spending, not your guests'.

     
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    hamster    May 30, 2010  

    I think that should be fine.  Maybe put a little description of your organization for people who might not be as familiar with it?  Best of luck!

     
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    MissStellar    May 2, 2009   MI

    I say do it. I work for a non-profit too, and I totally get it. You work there because you care! Make some nice tribute cards (or ask the development office if they have some) and have one ready for each person.

     
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    mrbee    March 5, 2005   New York City, New York

    Is your non profit controversial?  If not, then you're all set... but if it is, some guests might not like having a donation given in their name!  Just a thought...

    Good luck!

     
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    Sounds fine.  When you say arts, are they all performers or some painters?  Could you have the performers or artists, do something at the wedding?  Could you get a little slave labor to make someting for  the guests?  Then they can put their names on them and get a little recognition for themselves and the nonprofit?  Or if it's dancers or actors, maybe they could do a quick show/number etc and you could announce that this basically what the donation is going towards and the performers thank you (in better words.)  I guess the performance could be part of the "favor" too.

     
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    TheBrideConcierge    June 4, 2011   Los Angeles

    I don't think it's weird at all, it sounds like a really good cause.  If you feel really torn about the decision, you could split the donations between your place of work, and a second charity. 

     
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    fabulouslyengaged    8/1/09  

    Okay, thanks everyone. I don't feel as weird now about doing it. Yes, I do work there because it is something both my fiance and I are passionate about...and no, its not controversial, its the opera! lol

    I really think I just might do that then instead of favors. We're thinking about doing Jordan almonds because of our family traditions, but I think I will just throw them in with the cookies!! :-)

     

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