- 5 years ago
- Wedding: November 2013
My FI has a half sister on his mothers side who lives in the same town as where our wedding will be held. Something happened years and years ago (when FI was still a kid) and due to that the mum and her dont talk. FSIL doesnt talk to FI when he tries to reach out to her, and only know things about her (like she had a baby!) through family. FI sent her a text asking for her address so we can send out our STDs and she went crazy about how we never told her that we were engaged and to forget it cos she wont be coming.
As well, FI has a half sister and a half brother from his dads side, the sister lives about a 20min drive away and as far as I know will be coming though she isnt happy that we arnt having her children as page boys but the brother lives a 4hr flight away and instead of sending a reply to FI when he asked for his new address rung FFIL to pass on the message that they arent coming.
FFIL has never supported our wedding (as in doesnt believe in weddings not in the hates me type way) and thinks it would be better if FI and I just had children because “you’d be the same as a married couple then anyway”yet when we mentioned that it would be a small intimate wedding with only immediate family and friends FFIL basically snapped with “you better be inviting (half sister and brother on his side) because they are your siblings” but is defending them when FI mentioned that he was upset as FBIL was to be part of our bridal party
Just a vent