(Closed) Fed up with FCIL!

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Sorry to hear. This really sucks. One sided reatlionships never work out in the end.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

You sound like you don’t like her… so have her be a guest at the wedding. Tell her you are going with a super small wedding party and unfortunately there just isn’t space for her but you would love it if she comes a guest. That way if she backs out it doesn’t really matter. And you don’t want someone who drives you nuts in the wedding party anyway.

Post # 5
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

why don’t you just be honest with her?? Its not like you will miss anything if she stops talking to you, but maybe she doesn’t realize that the way she is acting isn’t right. Hard to believe, but a lot of obnoxious and horrendous people think the way they act is fine because no one ever tells them differently

Post # 8
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Ok. STOP doing things for her. Treat her the way she is treating you

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

You are already knee deep in family drama because you upset and bottling it. Family drama just is, you can’t avoid it. If you don’t want her in the wedding PLEASE don’t let her be in your wedding. You can make up some excuse like I listed above. Ultimately you will be more comfortable if she is a guest. And I think you will dislike her less since she won’t be able to screw up a good part of your wedding. Plus you want to look back and be happy not upset this annoying person was next to you driving you nuts.

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Pinksapphire: Charge her $20 for babysitting so you can go buy a tripod hahaha. 

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