(Closed) Feel awkward & nervous

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I think that can be totally normal.  My husband and I were together for more than 7 years before we finally got hitched, and while I was waiting for him to be ready, I had a lot of “oh god, this is huge!” thoughts.  

The question is whether you’re anxious about the process (buying a really expensive ring, not really knowing when it will happen, not knowing how to deal with the sales people at a jewelry store) or whether you’re having thoughts more along the lines of “is this really the person I want to spend my life with?”

Have you guys discussed marriage before you went ring shopping?  It sounds like this is just starting to happen and I think you need some time to sort out how you feel and what’s going on.  Take a deep breath, and enjoy it as much as you can.

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