Feel like a cheap-o…but

posted 3 years ago in Gifts and Registries
Post # 3
1088 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

To me that includes shower gifts, and you’re well in the clear. 

Post # 5
940 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@Skittles131:  You give what you can afford and what you want to give.

Don’t worry about looking cheap or comparing what you give to what someone else would give.

There are no rules.  If $50 is all you have then that’s just fine.

Post # 6
6738 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

You have done way more than enough. For a second wedding to the same person I wouldn’t give a gift at all, maybe a bottle of wine if I really felt like giving, but as far as I’m concerned, the weddng gift is meant to help the happy couple establish a household together, and they did that two years ago.

Post # 7
3782 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

You already gave them a wedding gift. I wouldn’t have gifted again — don’t worry about it.

Post # 11
8588 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

You’re fine.

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