- 6 years ago
- Wedding: September 2015
Hello fellow Bees,
My SO will be leaving on a family vacation this Saturday on New Years Eve (which also happens to be his birthday). He will be gone for nine days, which up until now is the longest we’ll have been apart. I was not invited on this cruise, nor did I ever expect to be, as we are not engaged or married.
I’ll admit that I’m feeling jealous that I’m not going with, but I do understand why. (Heck, my own mom is jealous!) I couldn’t have afforded the cost even if I had been invited. Still can’t help feeling that way, though… Nevertheless, I’ve told him that he’ll have a great time without me.
I know that I need to get over it. Already have some plans with friends for New Year’s Eve so I’m not alone. And I have work next week, but other than that…
Any advice on how to not constantly think about my SO while he’s gone? I’m already missing him. Was supposed to see him tonight, but I’m not feeling well.