Feeling a little blue

posted 2 years ago in Family
Post # 2
5208 posts
Bee Keeper

nawella:  It sounds like you and your sisters have really busy lives, and evrryone is a little over stressed. If you told them they can leave after the ceremony, then you have already tried meeting them halfway. It doesn’t sound like you have unreasonable expectations in the least, and you are being very sensitive to everyone’s needs.

Here is to hoping that your wedding is so joyous and fun that it makes them tell themselves “this was totally worth it”! 


Post # 4
1441 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

My best friend got married the weekend after I started law school and I was a bridesmaid. I was really stressed out about it but I did not let on to her at all (at least I don’t think I did!).  I couldn’t stay overnight with the other girls because I was broke and also needed to be home studying, but once I got to the ceremony I had a blast and I completely relaxed and I was so glad I had a forced break for joy in the middle of the stress and chaos.  I am hopeful that your sister will end up in the same place I did.  It’s easy to stress about the unknowns in the abstract but she’s your sister – she will be happy to be there on your wedding day.

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