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    1littlep    August 7, 2010   Seattle

    I'm two months with a couple of days there away from our wedding.  I'm feeling anxious and irritable.  It's not PMS though I'm feeling lots of boob tenderness (TMI, sorry) but I'm two weeks out from my period.  I feel like snapping at my fiance for the smallest things...I feel terrible but just am irritated and anxious for everything to be over and for us to go on our honeymoon.

    Did any other bees experience this before their wedding?

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    I think you are just stressed out.  Try to relax a bit in this time leading up to your wedding.

     
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    cardigan    January 7, 2011   Austin, TX

    I'm sure it's just stress!!! Just try to spend some time relaxing, and maybe ask your fiance to help you out with stuff when you start to feel overwhelmed :)

     
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    future mrs kirsch    July 24, 2010   Ferndale, MI

    I was feeling the same way. Are you under a lot of stress? My mom today told me that she wants these people to sit together and so and so does not want to sit with so and so. A week ago I would have started getting panicky and blown -up. But I just said, "This is our wedding, not a resturant. It's hard enough to create a seating chart without "requests". People will have to sit where I put them and they can mingle around." I am just trying to put things in perspective and trust that everything will come together.

     
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    baybejen    April 30, 2011   Los Angeles, CA

    I think stress might be the answer too.  Take some time to do non-wedding stuff every so often.  It helps out a lot to take your mind off of it. 

     
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    VeronicaH    April 24, 2010  

    You have a lot to do and lots of people asking and expecting things from you. It's normal to feel stressed and frustrated about things. Try to take a break and go out for a date with your FI (sometimes goes by the wayside with wedding expenses, but try to catch a happy hour special or just go out for icecream).

     
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    1littlep    August 7, 2010   Seattle

    Thank you, Bees!  I'm going to take today off and go see Sex and the City with a girlfriend.  Tomorrow, we'll head to the beach.  A break from thinking about the wedding is a great idea!

     
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    SweetheartDealer    August 7, 2010   LA/ Wedding in Sonoma, CA

    date twin! I am feeling the SAME way and actually just posted about it in the emotional boards too. I think we are very normal. I hope you are able to relax - and me too!

     
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    bakerella    September 11, 2010   Toronto, ON

    Ugh me too. FI was just asking why I'm so cranky today. I have a list of reasons, but it would just get me more worked up, so I'm just going to try to remove myself from the situation. I think it's just stress. Whatever. I'll eat a cupcake and get over it. I hope your day gets better and you're feeling back to yourself soon!

     

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