(Closed) Feeling Bitter!! Lots of reasons!

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

didn’t you post this yesterday too?

Post # 4
1458 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

^ Lol.


Honestly, if your Fiance is a rebel child, you can’t really expect them to invite him to everything and go all kum-ba-ya just because now you’re in the picture. Also, it sounds like it was your soon-to-be sister-in-law’s brother by blood, am I correct?  I think I would be closer to my own brother and his fiance than my husband’s brother’s fiance.  Or maybe they just don’t know you very well!  How about you invite them on a spa day?

Post # 6
79 posts
Worker bee

Nope, they’re out there (here).  Maybe they have people possibly reading these boards and find it too sensitive an issue to discuss publicly.  Stuff along those emotional-type-lines happened when I got married (28 years ago this year!) and it still hurts.  So much that when my daughter excitedly announced her upcoming engagement I was totally on board to make up for the hurt I’d felt as a bride.  And it hurts me when I see her get negative or neutral reactions from family members regarding her wedding plans too.  I mean, yeah…it IS just one day out of your life but hello?  It’s YOUR WEDDING DAY and it is supposed to be a big deal!  Would it kill some people to at least be polite and fake being excited?  I hope you don’t get dealt any more hurts like you’ve already got.  If you don’t get the involvement you wish for from family, try to forgive them even though it may hurt inside for a long time.  Make great memories for your Fiance and yourself, you owe it to yourselves.

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