(Closed) feeling down…

posted 4 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 3
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35 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2013

If it makes you feel any better..my fi and I waited til our son was two to start planning the wedding, he will be three when we get married this summer… I look way better than I did pre-pregnancy (weigh 20 lbs less)…our relationship never been stronger and our son is going to be THE cutest and most charismatic best man ever. Everything happens for a reason and parenthood is the BEST! Everything takes time, just give it time to sink in. It’s a shocking revelation! Congratulations!

Post # 4
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200 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Could you postpone the wedding date? My friends got married about 5 months after their daughter’s birth and still got to do everything – wedding shower, bachelor/bachelorette (on seperate weekends). It’ll be the best of both worlds =)

Post # 5
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122 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I would move the date either back or forward. FI and I aren’t TTC, but we had a scare in which I told him if we were I would want to move the date forward so I wouldn’t have been so far along. I also think moving the date back is a good option because it will give you time to have the baby, adjust, and then plan. Third is always getting married on original date or sooner but having the wedding or celebration after baby.

Whatever you decide, congrats on both the baby and the marriage! I know it isn’t the most ideal time but still such a happy occasion to have a baby with the love of your life.

Post # 6
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169 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

My husband and I were engaged May of 2012, planning a January 2014 wedding.. well this past Feb we found out we were pregnant.

Honestly, I felt the same as you.. I would laugh and cry.. and be happy, upset, scared, mad! lol I’m very much into planning, and had a specific vision for our wedding day…and this little beutiful and amazing ball of cells threw a kink in our chain!

We ended up eloping on the beach in March, just the two of us.. I still wore a gown, he wore a tux, we had a photographer… and we had the BEST day ever! I had a little morning sickness on our honeymoon… lol but what can you do?

We are both so happy and over the moon now, that we wouldn’t change a thing!

Give yourself a couple days/weeks to digest this new information.. maybe postpone wedding dress shopping for a couple days and enjoy the time before your morning sickness starts! lol jk 🙂 But really, give yourself time to think and plan your next step. You don’t have to decide today 🙂

congrats!!!!!!

Post # 7
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3760 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@spicyshimmer:  Oh sweetie I’m in the exact same place. Our wedding is planned for April 15th (engaged since November) and what do you know, I’m 5.5 weeks pregnant! I go back and forth between excitement and uncertainty. I still want my day, my bachelorette party, to be able to be carefree and have fun with my friends at my wedding (read: drink). We decided that we will still have the wedding after the baby is born, it might be scaled back a bit, but it might not. We’re working on the logistics. And we will likely get legally married sometime this year before the baby is born just for insurance/paperwork sake. Today is the first day I feel like this pregnancy is the most amazing blessing. When you feel that, nothing else will matter. The wedding will happen and it will be wonderful, I’m sure. But this baby… this is incredible. 

Post # 10
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3760 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@spicyshimmer:  We have told our immediate families and they are very excited. Right now we have a little under 3 months between due date and wedding. I’m considering pushing it back to the fall but not sure yet. I’m sorry your relationship with your mom is a struggle. I hope that things get better for you soon!! It’s really nice to have someone that is in the same boat. Feel free to message me anytime!!

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