- Koi Fishie
- 4 years ago
I have some friends getting married that have a relationship very different from ours and we don’t exactly agree with it, it’s codependent I guess and not exactly healthy. But it got us talking. And we’ve agreed that once we do actually get engaged, we’re going to go to premarital counseling. We think that no matter how good a relationship is, marriage can’t be taken lightly and will throw things at a couple they might have never prepared for or be able to deal well with otherwise. It was something I was nervous about bringing up, and I think so was he, but we’re on the same page!
We were also discussing a reading the aforementioned friends asked me to do at the wedding (I should mention, I’m MOH). It’s a nice selection (Captain Corelli’s Mandolin- you’ve seen it before, even if you don’t know the name) but I don’t exactly agree with it. I showed it to SO who agrees and doesn’t understand the point of wedding readings (such a guy lol). He thinks that most quotes on love miss the mark and are ultimately empty. He said he would need to carefully pick his words that really envoke emotions and if he isn’t crying when he reads his vows, he did it wrong. That being said, his vows are probably gonna be waaaaaaay better than mine. I don’t have his ability with words. But I’m so excited. I wasn’t sure how much he was going to get into the love-dovey seriousness of the wedding but omgheisandiamsoexcited.
I had a dream about our wedding last night after we talked about all that stuff. It was beautiful, even though it didn’t look like my “dream” wedding, it was perfect. I can’t wait. I wish it wasn’t gonna be the end of next year. I could totally get a wedding together in 3 months and like $2k ;P