- 6 years ago
- Wedding: August 2010
I’m feeling so sad the last couple days as my really good friend isn’t returning any of my emails or phone calls. I don’t think she is mad at me but she is just going through some stuff and isn’t herself so she is being distant. I’m seriously going through withdrawal as I normally talk to her a lot. Sometimes we email 6 times a day or worse case a couple times a week. She always returns my emails no matter what so this is really strange. I’ve emailed her a good 5 times over a couple week span, left messages and nothing. She is a really great person, always bubbly and extremely positive person. She truly has been an amazing friend always but especially during our wedding. She completely went above and beyond for us. She is has been distant in the past when she is going thru stuff but not like this as in the past she has returned my emails but is very short in them(compared to her normal huge paragraph emails). This time it is very different.
I’m really worried about her and don’t want to be selfish and think of myself but this really breaks my heart. I’m actually crying while I’m writing this. I have feelings that something is extremely wrong for her to distant herself like this and I feel like I’ll never hear from her again. I really want to be there for her as she has done so much for me but I don’t wan’t to harass her with multiple emails either. I’m so torn. My Darling Husband just says to leave her be for a while give her space and concentrate on spending time with other friends but I just can’t stop thinking about her.
Edit – I did speak with her Darling Husband and he did say that she is okay but just has some family stuff going on.
Thanks for listening as I needed to get this off my chest.